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This is never going to stop
14 months ago
God I’m so fucked up!
How to stop the pain
It made me
feel strong again 
"I'm talking about emotional pain. I felt really down, lonely and powerless. But now the sun is finally shining for me too and I'm about to go out to enjoy my day, which is something I wasn't able to do before."
How I did it: Time is very important. The body and the mind need some time to adjust to changes, especially if these involve stressful events like the end of a relationship or stuff like that. So basically you just have to wait for your elan vital to come back.
I also had online support from friends (some of them I know in my real life, some just virtual), so I got a chance to speak, to express my feelings and thoughts.
Finally, music. The right music can work wonders: no kidding!
Lessons & tips: 1. Take your time.
2. Think things through.
3. Focus on yourself: your past, your current situation, what actually causes the pain.
4. Than just look out of the window: there is a wonderful world out there for you to experience and make yours. Believe this, and do not let bad experiences or fear stop you. We have gotta be brave!
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i need an outlit – a way to stop the pain.
