i think finding love is really hard im 31 and have two kids one who is 14 and one is 9 both did not work out ive been trying to find the the write person my hole life someone who will treat me write and make me happy 2 years ago i throught that happend she found me was verry happy was together for a year and half but afer a few mounths we started going apart and it and it ended up being the wost partner of my life i allways have falt there is someone write out there for everryone i just want to find the write person to love and to be happy with and spend the rest of my life with and for her to love me and be happy with two i dont ever think it will ever happen now ive been looking for 15 years im not geting any younger just wich i could find her.
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i had him….. i ended joining the navy and when i came home he had moved. i could not find him. after about 2 years i started seeing someone else that was in the navy with me. we got pregnant and ended up getting married. big mistake. right before i had my son my husband and i were at mg moms house and HE walked in. i didn’t know what to say or do. he was mad but played it off. a month latter my husband left for navy stuff. i had my son a little latter. when i was back at my moms on leave he came back. we spent a few days together, just as friends nothing else. on my last day there he told me he wished it Wis his son end that we were still together. well since them my husband and i have had another son and are now getting a divorce. i have not talked to him since that day almost 5 years ago. i want him back in my life. he is the only one that i have ever wanted i miss him
I am. there is no more time to waste. so ….this is who I am:
I love and breed little dogs. I live rurally in south central Oklahoma on nearly 4 acres and have built my small house nearly all by myself.
I love growing flowers and a few vegetables… I would love to be more self suffcient with solar and wind power… get off the grid… I love nature and enjoy being outside working and playing with my dogs.
All my life I have been an alternativethinker, very different from the norm in my mind and heart about God. I grew up Catholic, yet as soon as I could I started exploring other ways of considering God in my life. I have been to India, and have studied with several Guru/teachers.
I have practiced meditation and expanded my inner knowing and intuition of myself and have attained a certain level of awareness and consciouness about life, love and spirit.
I am seeking a devoted and loving partner who has a similar level of awareness and consiousness and who knows what it really means to Love a woman and be responsible for who he is as a man and who has a very very high level of Integrity, Honesty, and Open Heart and Mind.
I live my life outside the “box” and I will not ever conform to what “other”s expect. My Heart and Mind are free to be the unique expression and view point of God that I am and I demonstrate to others that they are all capable of being that unique and distinct expression and viewpoint of God that they are.
Tired of ending up with people who just take off :( , jst want that someone who will always be there
Love is not something you can work at finding really. When that person is ready to be found or discovered, they will find you. You have to be open to finding love in the most unlikely places.
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i know i’m young but falling in love (and becoming a mermaid) is something i’ve wanted to do ever since i was really little.
thanks to tv am im not going to start this
at the moment om feel sick and tired of being alone , so if i find the man of my dreams as if may be i can cheer myself up a bit. i have joined a few dating sites but all i get is emails. i have had the offer of a few dats but they cancell at the last second.
i have tryed so hard but i have no idear whats wronge with me. may be im to fussy. i dont want a married man or to be a bit on the side. i really donot want a pervert, abuser weirdo or a sex cam pervert.
surly finding a nice normal man cant be that hard?
well it is, so what can i do about it?
i have written good profiles add photos but still i get nothing.
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Finding love is not difficult when you remove unrealistic expectations. Finding the love of my life is of another quality. I do have expectations regarding the safety of my well being, both emotionally and physically.I wish to discover another passive soul who is walking a similar path towards some place comforting. No power struggling. How do you find that?
After two divorces and 5 years of counseling, I want to find a partner. I think I have finally resolved my issues and am ready to find that person!
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