find the one

ive dated this guy before, but while we were dating he was doing drugs and he cheated on me..with my best friend, well hes back but hes sober and he says he still loves me and i still love him i always have and i know hes the one and now that hes single i know itll work..he wont cheat on me..right?..

“the one” was somewhere in this group of 266 other people who also want to find “the one”??? I’m just saying…..

I am what I am :)

true love is everything. It’s hard to find. and we’ve learned there are no websites that make the perfect boy.

I was told by a guy that I “intimidate” guys because I have a great personality, humor, and because I am attractive. I don’t get it. I understand how guys could be intimidated that I am a great package, but why run away? Why not run towards me, since I’m not anything to fear?

Of course, it doesn’t help that the guy who told me this had liked me and doesn’t have very great self-esteem. He said that most guys don’t feel they deserve me, and don’t pursue because I intimidate.

I know this was supposed to be a ego booster from him, but it made me feel actually worse.

I just want a lover!!!

Yeah, I haven’t found “the one,” and you know what? I really don’t mind. I’ve decided to stop this never-ending journey and just go on with my life. I’ve heard that you find so many things when you’re not looking. For example, you’re not looking for money and you find a penny on the ground. Well, love is like that. And it’s so frustrating, every day of my life remembering that I haven’t changed at all in the past 6 years of my life, and I probably never will.

It’s frustrating. It’s not healthy. It’s not … safe.

Sometimes you just need to let life go, and see where it takes you, and that’s what I’m doing.

There is a movie that plays Nicholas Cage as an angel, and in this movie (spoiler) he falls in love with a women who can see him. As a angel this is not normal for someone to see him, so he follows her. Throughout the movie they both fall in love, and he takes a vow to God to become human so he can spend time with her on earth mortally. As he takes his “fall” the woman dies very shortly after due to a biking accident. Even though the love was very very subtle, he would have never changed a thing. This is true love of “finding the one” Some of us think it is at fault to search for the one, and that is true to an extent. I want to find the one, but not search for her.

I know she’s out there and for all I know, I’ve already met her.

I dream this popular dream, too. Though, I’m not very good at this kind of things, probably the search will last forever.