get over someone

Once again I have made communication with “her” and “him” and it ended badly. Why didn’t I see this coming? I suppose I just haven’t learned my lesson. Hopefully this will be the last time. I tell myself I want nothing to do with them, yet I still allow comminication. I need to stop being so “nice” or whatever I am doing wrong. I NEED to leave it completly in the past. It is just so unbelievable that this has happened again. It almost seems like it gets worse everytime. Gr… this entry does not even describe how I feel about it all, I can’t even explain how sickening and difficult it is to cut them out of my life for good. I know it’s what I want. I need to stay away!

my boyfriend just broke up with my thursday. but keeps telling me he loves me & sending me mixed signals. and then next thing i know he’s throwing the fact that he broke up with me in my face. we were together for 10 months and were each other’s firsts. this is so hard, but i NEED to get over him.

Up until now I was doing great not thinking twice about him ( or her)...But then he wrote me a note… and it got me thinking ‘hey he’s still thinking of me…even if it is just a little’...now my brain can’t shut up about it. There I am trying to get to sleep and all I can think about is the times we spent together…what could have been with him and I. Dammit it feels so normal… but I know it’s not, it’s sickening… I’ve come far and I know I shouldn’t throw it away at the sight of his face in my inbox. It just brought the hurt back, the longing for him. I hope he is losing sleep over me. =/

good luck. its not easy…but it is worth it. i’ve found that when ive gotten over someone, it makes me stronger in some way…i (usually) dont make the same mistake again..

good luck. its not easy…but it is worth it. i’ve found that when ive gotten over someone, it makes me stronger in some way…i (usually) dont make the same mistake again..

It is my newyears resolution for 2009 to get over the fact of both of them… put them out of my mind and out of my life. He made it pretty obvious that I’m not a priority of his and I no longer want to be one of hers. So I conclude to delete him from my Myspace, no longer communicate with them unless I must, no longer take peeks at their profiles or think hopelessly about him or her. Nor be resentful, hateful or regretful because IT IS NOT WORTH IT! I need to take the focus off them and live my life. What they do shouldn’t be any of my concern because personally I no longer want anything to do with eitehr of them. Curently I’m still feeling a bit hateful but it comes and goes. By the end of next year I hope to have forgiven them and moved on—to a point where they rarely even cross my mind. It’s somewhat difficult to imagine what it will be like but I have already taken steps to move on (such as removed his photograph from my wall, stoped IMing him or saying “I love you” to him).

Oddly I have Dejavu. O.o
Anyway all I can do is be strong and move the fuck on!=)

There is this boy I like named Tommy. We were friends then I asked him out and he said yes. Then in two days he broke up with me and never told me why. I am curious if he still likes me or not because he treats me the same way as he did when we were going out. It’s really confusing. I was devastated for a long time and I still am. It was really sad. He wasn’t even brave enough to break up with me himself. He sent a friend to do it instead. Now he likes one of my friends and they started going out. Then she broke up with him because I was really sad when they were going out. It’s bad. I’ve liked him for over a year now. I want to know why he broke up with me and if you think he likes me. Girls and boys can answer. (I want all the advice I can get.)

Well what can I say, I had an 8 year relationship with the most wonderful girl, but things got cold, and I got in contact with a girl that I met her before I met my ex. She was in this 14 year relationship with another woman and was very unhappy, she asked me to go out with her I did not wanted, but she insisted alot. So I gave in, we went to the movies and we kissed and that kiss has been the most wonderful, awesome beatiful kiss in my entire life, after that she wanted to be sexually with me she even got a room (a nice one may I add) and after that we just could not let go of each other, My GF left me after finding out, but my GF was doing the same thing, so I was ok with it because I was with this girl, but I became friends with her partner, they would take me everywhere and I felt so bad because my girl would insist in me going everywhere with them , that she could not be apart from me so I went a long. We were going to get together she said that I was the love of her life , that I made her feel for the first time in her life, and I felt the same way, the thing is that her partner found out and chaos was on!! Now she does not want to do anything with me, she blame it on me I feel so bad I even try and comited suicide, Im so in love with her, and the thing is that she says she is also in love with me but that she does not want to struggle again, because she had strugle her entire life and what she has she has it because both of them struggle, so now im alone I lost everything even my partner. I want to get over her please advice me, I know im breaking more each day, I want to forget her.

I was head over heels in love with this woman. She was amazing. I thought things would work out but they didn’t.

I have been unable to really, really feel that much love in a long time, but I’m getting close to being over her.

I wish I could say what helped me. I wish I could say when I’ll be over her, but I really really can’t.

It’ll just come with time.

hi every 1 i read this site and i really need sum advice.ive been with my bf for 2 years and we have split up for good this time.when i first got with him i sed no every time he asked me out becoz i had been hurt so many times b4 that i didnt trust ne 1,bt eventually i gave in and fort it wudnt hurt to give it a go.so we were gd and then a few months later he finished me for no reason and yea i was upset bt i didnt love him at this point so it wasn’t so bad.6 months later he txted me and wanted to get bk with me and i did.since then he has texted anuva girl who he met jus b4 me (she has a fiancee of 4 yr)he has talked to ppl on msn and other stuff its an endless list.
he has neva took me anywhere or dun ne thing romantic 4 me bt yet i love him so much,he has finished me about 20 times sayin he h8s me and i can do better bt i jus knt make myself h8 him.today i went round his place coz we got bk together a few weeks ago and today he is sat round there drunk and he has wrote on his cupboard that he loves this other girl with the fiancee of 4 year.i dont know what im supposed to do nemore.what can i do to make myself h8 him coz i believe that it is only then that i will be able to make myself truly h8 him.