make it on my own

i have to make it on my own because im the only one looking out for me. I can’t fail.

When I first made this entry it was due to a horrible divorce from a horrible man back in March 2005 when he first left us due to infidelity. Everything he said back then was to cover up that he was actually cheating and now he is married to the woman he was cheating with while we were still married.

This man has done and caused so many problems trying to make it hard on me financially even to this day and our divorce was final back in January 2006. He apparently doesn’t know how to move on and get a life and he needs to realize that he can’t keep me in his life by pulling all these things because I let him go the day he left us. lol Don’t want him and definitely don’t need him. He will NEVER control me again. That alone will keep me laughing for a while. lol

Well people, he didn’t win and it is funny because he tried so hard and paid so much to attorneys and still could not win. I feel he needs a new hobby. lol But that is my opinion just like everything I may say anywhere, just my opinion. :-) I do have that right don’t I? lol

From March 2005 when he left, October 2005 when I had to leave our home so he could move her in, to February 2007 when I purchased my home, to now, I have made it on my own. He thought I was useless and couldn’t do it and like I said tried to make it where I couldn’t but I made it on my own. I now have my own business and have my own home and he has nothing to do with it.

So people, for those that end up with someone that we would consider in our opinions a loser because they cheat and lie and they totally turn our worlds upside down and think you just can’t get back on your feet. Think again, put a new outlook in and wipe those tears and look ahead because your future is brighter than you think.

I survived and made it and grew better than I have ever been and you can too. So if you look back for some reason at what has happened to you because of a worthless man be sure to laugh because he doesn’t know what he just let go and one day that man will regret what he had lost.

This goes to both guys and gals who have dealt with cheaters and your world comes crashing down around you because of them. Again, you can do it and will succeed like you never thought you could. Stand up tall and laugh and enjoy the path that you will go down. Don’t give up and don’t let them bring you down. It is easy to wipe crap off the bottom of your soles don’t you think. LOL

I am trying but i am waiting on two people how do I make it happen faster

I am in the process of moving out

I want to not rely on anyone for anything for once. I want to walk down the street in the dress I bought, in the shoes I paid for, and in the strut I do so well.

In March 2005 my husband, Klaus Lech informed me that we were over. He said he wanted to move up in his company at Seimens in Arlington Texas without the baggage of a family. He also informed me that because I only had a high school education that he couldn’t have a decent conversation with me. He knew I only had a HS education when he met me. He also said that it was like coming home to low class people because of it and that he was tired of repeating things to me because I am deaf in one ear.

I stuck by his side through all his many job changes as he grew more and more financially secure and then when he reached this he just dropped us like wadded up trash. What kind of man is he to just do something like that? I just can’t understand. He isn’t even an american and feels americans are inferior to him and he gets away with so many things and it pains me that he can do the things he does to me and my children.

Still going through the divorce even after 7 months I am just getting started on my own for the first time in many years even before this marriage. I am scared to death and I worry constantly about what would happen if I was to lose the job I just got. If I get sick I have no one to fall back on to bring money in. So many worries.

Also what comes around goes around because he has and probably still is cheating on her and I feel no pity for her because I feel she deserves what she gets. I only say this from proof and his stupidity. She should have expected that since he cheated on me. And trust me she isn’t the second time he has cheated. I wonder what her son would do if he was to ever find out about his infidelities.

Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. They NEVER change.

I’m trying to figure out how to tell my parents i’m moving out without them hating me

I’m ready to stop relying on my parents or anyone else. I want to be able to support myself.