I’m 20, almost 21, have never wanted children, and want the option of not having to worry about BC, so as soon as possible I’m going for the tubal ligation. with burning. anyone know the legality of this in Ohio?
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Tired of condoms and so is my husband. Other methods aren’t a good fit for my needs. I was given an appointment last August and forgot about it. So, now it is back on the front burner. My last child was a surprise. Very welcome, very loved, just stressful in terms of timing. I wanted another child and felt complete after her birth. So, no more. I’m too old for this.
i want to get them tied and ihave to but im scared i have blood clots in my leg to my abd. and cannot be on birth controli have two kids and im 21 and i don t know where a good doctor is that will take medicaid… i love in south bend IN.. help me!
MandyTLCandy I don't like myself, I'm CRAZY about myself (:
I’m DONE.
At almost 34, I’m a Mama to 15 & 9 yr old girls. Yep..That’s enough. No plans on starting all over again. I can honestly look back and say that being a young parent was the best thing in the world FOR ME. Now, that my daughters are older, I am finally taking classes, looking to start a business and hopefully this year we as a family can do and see more. A baby is the last thing in the world I would want and my boyfriend and I are very very careful.. BUT I have to keep in mind I was careful the other times as well and look where that got me! Surprise! (:
I really want THIS to be the year it gets DONE.
Becky doing good so far....
I can’t remember to take my pills. I also cannot ever fathom being pregnant. I have too many issues with my body and just with other people in general (not my husband, but I don’t think I could handle a child that was born from our relationship, and adopting has always been a goal of mine). I want to go to the doctor soon.
Becky doing good so far....
I’m 25, perfectly able to have kids, but I have my heart set on adoption (I have felt this way since I was 23). I have thought this through and it is something I know I want to do-it will work out well for my goals and lifestyle. My husband isn’t happy about it, but honestly I feel very repressed-I don’t see why I should do something I don’t want to do simply because he wants bio kids (but obviously can’t give birth). I don’t want any more days of “Oh no, am I pregnant?!” and honestly, I am far too selfish to give up caffeine, cheese, manicures and highlights for a pregnancy, not to mention my figure. I love toddlers and kids, but babies disgust me because they’re too small and dependent and I can’t teach them things the way I would a toddler or small child. Anyway, now that I’ve ranted, I need to find a doctor who is willing to do this for me. I know even though I’ll be 26 next year when I go, they will still consider me “too young”. Oh, of course because I’m a woman, I don’t know my own mind (sarcasm) so how would I know if I want a tubal ligation or not?
I’m waiting for my husband to get “snipped”, I’m 28 and have a 5 year old boy and twin boy and girl, I am definetly done, I love them dearly and I don’t have any time to have more kids, if he doesn’t stop being a big baby about it soon, I’m going to go get done, so there will be no more worries about it! Is it painful? I’ve already been through enough I think, lol!
I’m 28 married and un-happy. I have three beautiful kids and I wanted more. I had mine done three years ago when I was 24 almost 25 and I hate it!!! I wish I had never let my husband and doctor talk me into it. I had second thoughts right before it but after it was done I was fine and I don’t remember any pain now. Now its almost 4 years later and I want another baby, I’m thinking about divorcing my husband over this because he bullied me into doing it and I’m looking into my options to have mine reversed, luckily they didn’t burn my tubes and just clamped them shut so my chances of having another baby later are about 80%. That brings a little hope and a light at the end of the tunnel.
Hey ladies I’m 22 I have three kids and after my third one me and my husband decided we didn’t want anymore. So I got my tubes tied. Its been a little under a year and I’m late!! We don’t want anymore kids. Is this normal?
im 19 with 3 kids after i had my last son they asked me if i wanted to get my tubes tied but i said i will wait because i wanted to have a girl. i know have a iud and i still want to have a girl but my husband doesnt want to. still kinda confused on what i want to do. i have a appt on the 21st to talk to my dr. about a referral.

