Alright so i’ve decided i really wanna be a genuinely ice person even though everyone think i’m nice and my girlfriend said i’m already too nice to everyone i wanna stop doing this i wanna treat people the way i wanna be treated and i dont like when people talk bout about me so i think i shoudl respect others and not do it to them yup yup :D
How to stop talking bad about people
How I did it: It's simple. Every time when I have the urge to say something bad about someone, I just think twice. It'll be pretty tough at first, I understand, it's like there's a puppy leaping out from your throat, desperate to make a few quick comments like "Hey you know she did ....... ". But I tell you, just push the puppy back, into your chest. When you did it once, the second time will come naturally.
However, sometimes I lose control too. But don't give up just because you lose control for a few times.
Whenever I wanted to make some negative comments about somebody again, I smile. Somehow, smiling helps. Maybe it just makes me feel like being a better person by not badmouthing others?
What ever it is, best wishes to you!
Lessons & tips: Control your mouth, don't blabber every thing out.
Resources: Myself :)
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but I feel like I am actually doing much better. You know when people are talking bad about someone to you? It’s difficult not to jump in and commiserate with the person doing the talking. It almost seems rude not to! That’s pretty twisted reasoning though; refusing to talk about people is rude…



