Focus on people's good qualities instead of the bad

I’m still trying… I can try to focus on good qualities, and succeed, but sometimes a persons negative energy and/or negative qualities can overwhelm attempts at looking for the good.

I’m trying, though. Sometimes venting can help. If I express my frustration, it allows me to then concentrate on finding something good to say or think. It pays to be tactful when venting, though.

..if this is worth doing, but that is what i did my whole life (up to now)... I think it is important to get realistic picture. Teoretically if I must focus on something, I would rather focus on positive than on negative side. In reality, I resign looking everyone’s ideal side. This has something to do with boundarys.