I knew this was going to be difficult. Most info (books, online articles, magazines, etc) is focused on improving X thing about yourself so that you can find someone afterwards. I’m not saying that’s wrong. Just saying that’s not what I want! I don’t care what strangers think about me, but I find the whole “people won’t judge you if you’re single because it’s the 21st century” thing annoying. It’s not like that at all. 6 months ago

I’m just really happy on my own now. It still amazed me. I always thought that I could not live without love. But I never really understood what love was until now.

Back then, the only thing I was looking for was love – the love from a boy or a man. There was always a guy in my life after I started dating. Whenever a relationship ended I always rushed into a new one. Now I realized those were not even “relationships” at all. All I wanted was to have someone around me to make me feel less lonely. It all changed after my last bf came to my life and for that I will always be grateful for him. Funny that I didn’t realize it until our relationship ended. It was rough in the first few months after the break-up but now I am very happy by myself. No worries, no pressure, no sadness anymore. I’ve got so much time for myself and I can use them to do whatever I want. I feel so free. For the first time in my life I know what I want and I am determined to make my dreams come true. I have confidence in myself and I know I DO deserve everything. It’s as if I was born again. I have the whole world in front of me.

Yes. I am very happy in my life right now. 7 months ago

Well, when my ‘uni boyfriend’ decided to call it quits, I had a year of rediscovering myself and being content with who I was and not worrying about the judgement of someone else (not to mention their family too) all the time. I realised that although I’d been with the same guy all the way through uni, I was no longer the same girl who had started going out with him 4 years before and that in fact, we were actually really different people, with very different values (i.e. the fact that I would put the happiness of those closest to me, ahead, or at least at times, parallel with, my career…) I’ll say no more ;) 11 months ago

I’m finally here:) I’m so thankful!!! I am so very happy all on my own. The pain in my heart is healed from past relationships and I feel whole again. I’m so thankful and I thank God for doing that work in me. I’m excited for what’s to come in my life and I feelers ready than ever. Thank you God for being so good to me. 11 months ago

It’s not right to expect someone to be my sole source of happiness. It’s also a scary & unhealthy thought that someone can mean literally everything for me. What if that one leaves? Will my world collapse? No. Happiness comes from within. And nobody can takes it away from me.

“You can run out there and try to love other people to death in the hope that the love cup will runneth over and fill you up with whatever is missing, but the reality is that without you loving you, happiness is fleeting and also has the potential to be robbed from you with every person that comes in and out of your life.” 13 months ago

I don’t believe in love anymore (I mean “couple love”), but even if I did I know I need to do this. 13 months ago

No more looking back. Just me now, no threads of hope to leave me hanging onto a boy. Focusing on my relationship with the lord and all the plans that He has for me that I know are bigger than mine. I love you lord. Thank you for watching over me and walking beside me. 13 months ago

My contentment has been better. I’m not so lonely or hurting as much. I’m so thankful for this time on my own to grow and walk wit God. 15 months ago

It’s a whole new year. It’s been five months on my own since Jon and I split. I am learning to be happy on my own. It’s still a coming process but I know the Lord is walking with me. 16 months ago

This morning when I stepped out the building and opened the door, my eyes met the sun’s rays and I knew it was gonna be a beautiful day. I stood still for a few minutes and let the sunshine pour on me. My heart was full of joy and peace. I felt so grateful and lucky. I’m happy :) 17 months ago

I’m not going to let anyone take control of my feelings and my life. I’m free :) 20 months ago