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kandyse is taking care of my lil girl

My Experience 12 months ago

June 4th 2008! I had a baby girl we named Jamee. I had a midwife and she was awesome at her job. She stayed calm, helped me to stay calm, relaxed and to enjoy this AMAZING experience, and I did!!! I went without an epidural or IV until I had to get pitocin of course to speed things up. IT was a hospital. I dont regret any moment of my birth experience. It so beautiful and magical words could’t begin to describe it. The hospital nurses kept wanting to give me morphine to help me sleep and it also would help me to stop throwing up, but I know how morphine slows progress and that stuff. Besides I can roll over go to sleep, I did so for an hour thats it. The nurses kept saying oh youre gonna be so… exhausted and blah blah. See, I wasn’t. I had all kinds of support from my husband and his side of the family not to mention the midwife. I was so… euphoric and happy to see my baby, show her off, learn to breastfeed. I didn’t care! I don’t think I slept for 4 days! I believe everyone has a choice as to what provider they choose. Be it midwife or OB but women should know what they’re missing out on!!! I know birth is painful but in my mind the day or two of labor is nothing compared to the lifetime of watching a part of you and your husband grow, learn, love, smile, and for me to look at and say wow I brought this amazing person in the world. Im pregnant and ready to do it again! :) Point is midwifery is a wonderful choice to those who ponder it!



Why do THEY have control over this? 18 months ago

I’m all for less government control. A natural homebirth with a midwife is SAFE! Safe and even more healthy for the mother and the baby than being forced to go through all of the hospital’s unnecessary and hindering procedures.

Only in America are we expected to feed on the fear of the medical industry and to give in and do whatever they say. Midwives are the experts of normal births, not doctors. Doctors are the experts of ABnormal births. Let’s keep a right perspective.



Taking away our rights 18 months ago

I am now pregnant with our second child and have just recently moved up from Texas where we had our first at home. It was a wonderful experience and I will NEVER have a hospital birth. I know hundreds of horrible stories and facts that would make that decision absolutely foolish on my part. Therefore, we are going to have to drive into Iowa to have this baby in my parent’s home.
The fact that we have to do this is utterly ridiculous! For SO many good, solid reasons this is absurd and preventing home births is insane. I want to know how to change the stupid law in Nebraska that would prevent educated families from making the sensible choice of having a home birth.



kandyse is taking care of my lil girl

Home Births 18 months ago

I use to live in Norfolk, NE and I am currently pregnant. I always wanted a homebirth, if atleast a birth center but was shocked to find that homebirths are illegal in this state…crazy! and that my CNM Gail Consoli has a birth center up but can’t open it unless a heads it or the state of NE approves it. She is very poular in that town and even so deserves to have it. I’d like to know where I can start, too. Petitions? Writing the legislature…? What? My last appointment I seen the birth center was for sale for 1.5 million and have been keeping tabs to see if it sells and now the ad has disappeared from Dover Realty’s website. Does anyone know if the birth center sold or if they took it off the market. It’d be a shame for it to be sold. We have to get her that birth center up and running, somehow, someway!

It’s a shame in school they say don’t let your talent go to waste but you have a special talent and you know how every one wants to find their calling but when one person has a special talent and belief and they follow their calling. The state is there to say, no it doesn’t make us money. It’s sad!



How can we change the law? 20 months ago

I have always dreamed of having a home birth, ever since I can remember. I am now 30 and ready to start a family, and I now learn that I can’t have a midwife at my side when I give birth! This is outrageous! What can we do? Sign petitions? write our legislator?
I am willing to help out please let me know if/when it is needed.



Nebraska Friends of Midwives 2 years ago

We’ve actually been pretty active on this lately. There’s an open house this weekend for a birth center in Norfolk that can’t open because the CNM can’t find a doctor to sign off on it. It’s silly that she should have to, of course, which is what we’d like to see changed.

I’ve also been working on updating the Nebraska Friends of Midwives website, and will try to keep up on that more.



Adrienne will be absent while taking strides for goal #1.

NE State Board of Health Meeting 3 years ago

On Monday, July 24th was the Nebraska State Board of Health meeting and, I think, the end of the 407 Review process. I attended the meeting.

I felt that Heather and Autumn both gave really good presentations. I felt like the croony-ism that had been mentioned before still existed with the BOH and the opposed group. I also felt like the concerns brought up before were brought up again by the opposition and they did not even bother to change their wording. I can understand why, when you’ve got it right, you don’t change it. But it is also good to give your opinion in different words so you don’t sound like a broken record.

Anyway, the BOH voted against the proposals, which was expected. I think there is still a legislative process, but I am uncertain what the next steps are.

I did pay my dues to Nebraska Friends of Midwives, though, which I’d been putting off.



Newspaper article 3 years ago

One brave family shared their story with the Lincoln newspaper; I hope this might stir up some support for our side. That July 24 Board of Health meeting is going to be critical.



Adrienne will be absent while taking strides for goal #1.

NE State Board of Health Subcommittee Meeting 3 years ago

Friday was a meeting by a subcommittee for the NE Bord of Health. Here are my thoughts on the meeting as I shared them with the NE Friends of Midwives.

I took
several notes. I felt that my jaded view of the medical
establishment was only confirmed by the actions of two specific
committee members. I don’t know how much trouble I would get the
group into by mentioning their names specifically, so I won’t. I
don’t care how much “trouble” I would get into myself.

Dr. Wills was wonderful. His introductory comments basically
contradicted the outcome of the Technical review committee and he
stated that the vote was made in “fear” rather than by analysis of
the facts. He mentioned several times that the issues brought up in
the application are already issues and they need to be address.
Closing our eyes to the acts or continuing to let DEM’s be illegal is
only causing harm and not helping.

I thought Heather’s testimony was quite calm and collected. The
committee itself did not look like it was prepared in any sense.
Because I was unable to attend any but the first of the technical
review meetings, I found her testimony quite interesting. I wish
they would have taken questions from the “audience.”

I liked Chanin’s comments as well. They were well prepared and I
liked that she addressed the fact that those who choose homebirth are
not uninformed people, but well educated and researched mothers and
fathers.

When Charles Palasin, attorney representing the Nebraska Medical
Association, spoke in opposition to the applications, one of the
doctors on the panel called him “Chuck.” I think this shows a sort
of “croony” type attitude that tells us that the people who are
making this decision already stand in the opposition category, and
therefore cannot decide this neutrally.

I feel like the panel missed the point that homebirths are already
happening and that by voting against these applications, they are
allowing an existing harm to already continue where those who are
choosing homebirth have no licensed professionals they can turn to.
We may love our midwives, but having a legal route is better.

Unfortunately, despite being told, “We are NOT introducing homebirth
to the state. It is ALREADY happening, we need to assess how to best
serve those making the homebirth choice.” The panel kept acting as
though “I don’t like homebirth” was reason enough to vote against the
applications.

I was disappointed that Chanin was the only person who mentioned our
postcard campaign and the board of health knew nothing about it. Why
did they not count how many they received? I stated this to another
NE Friends of Midwives who said that we can’t know how many were
mailed. Yes, we can. The BOH should have them and count them. If
they ignore those postcards, then they are ignoring the NE public,
and they are not serving their purpose as a board who examines
medical care for the NE public.

And, my third point on this is that the BOH needs frequent reminders
that 40 other states license DEMs and it is not any more dangerous in
the state of Nebraska. I would think comparing birth statistics for
DEM licensed states and Nebraska would show that Nebraska has higher
infant mortalities and Cesaerean births per population.

I just saw where someone asked who sat on the panel. I noted: Janet
Coleman (who was for the homebirth stuff for awhile but one comment
by Dr. Discoe dissuaded her), Daryl Wills, Ed Discoe, Linda Heiden,
Roger Reamer, Gary Westerman, Ron Briel, and Les Spry.

By the way, do they realize that most birth centers are business
propositions, either founded by midwifes or entrepreneurs with hired
midwifes? Do they realize that loans for these businesses are very
hard to come by and it may be a “middle ground” but that for those
who want a hospital birth, they will not go to a birth center, and
those who want a homebirth, a birth center is not a “happy medium.”?
I guess not.

Anyway, I am also really upset by yesterday’s meeting. Several times
I felt like standing up and saying “YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND!” After
Chanin said, basically the stereotype of homebirthing women is wrong,
comments made by board members (specifically the ones with “Dr” in
front of their names) showed that they believe all mothers/patients
are uneducated and incapable of making these decisions without their
guidance.

Instead of resorting to the snide comments I would like to make in
regards to specific panel members, I will end this email. I will
add that after the two meetings I have attended, I do feel like our
attendance means nothing to those who are voting. I don’t want to
dissuade people from attending and making every effort to attend, and
I certainly plan on attending the July 24 meeting, but I am thinking
I will need to go out and have a stiff drink after.

By the way, we were admonished that the BOH have lots of issues to
cover in one afternoon and they will not be spending 3 1/2 hours on
this topic.



Adrienne will be absent while taking strides for goal #1.

Sent Postcards 3 years ago

I sent 8 postcards to the State Board of Health to support the 407 Review for Midwife Care in Nebraska. It wasn’t much, but it was about all I could do during the time period. I’m not very good at asking people to sign things. While I think this is important and I want to educate people, I find it hard to approach people. Overall, I think our group sent out hundreds of postcards, so hopefully we had a good response.

Learn more about the postcard campaign at http://www.nemidwives.org/tidbits/technical-review.php



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