How I did it: I know this will seem odd, but the drama must stop. The highs and lows that I was raised on - in a large family - had to center into an even keel. Creating conditions in your life for this isn't easy - as we are surrounded by drama kings and queens - the drama junkies in the world who want to make you a part of their movie.
I work to stand centered - and not get thrown into their dramas. We have enough in our lives to manage without managing others. What I think is important is to wake up to this - take steps to remove yourself from it - and start living without the drama...the highs and lows...and truly get centered. I am seen as steady - and a rock - reliable - sturdy. That hasn't always been the case - ask anyone who knew me in my drama filled 20s and 30's. Having a child created this need for peace in her life and mine. I had to find a stable base for her. I had to be a rock for her. Not a rock star. A rock. I have done that for her...and me. Read how I did it… 4 months ago
Finding peace this year has meant truly believing in myself, my work, my skills and talents, and truly stepping up to the role I play in life in order to live in a peaceful existence with myself.
So, I am at peace. The income level is restored after a stormy center of the year… My daughter is back at school, in love and succeeding in her studies… My life has the man of my dreams in it and I am so very happy with him.
My discontent is managing all the work that is now on top of me and to lead, perform and step into myself and my work in a very authentic down to earth manner, while maintaining my professionalism.
I am in peace. going away to think – which is what I need right now. After a slow walk into the work, it is at a full run and a marathon for the next year, or two. Gotta get my arms around it all. 6 months ago
This took over too years it’s about a healthy ammount of self love 10 months ago
Not gonna check this off, as it’s a process, but I’m getting there. I finally realized that the world’s happiness doesn’t depend on me, and that I’m not going to seriously change other’s opinions of me by worrying about it. It’s helping me be more at peace, which makes me want to keep at it. 10 months ago