Find that special someone

This is quite hard for me… I thought I had that special someone when I went out with a girl I loved named Erica.. It all started 7th grade haha a little young but I was in love. I’ve always wanted to ask her out her 6th grade but I was tooo shy to :p. Thats wen in 7th grade she told me she liked me for a long time and I was the happiest guy in the world.. Haha everyday in middle school 7th and 8th grade we would be together everyday, talk on the phone till late, and basically just be together nonstop haha.. Then when it was time for our freshman year and we both had our minds set that we would still be together even when we graduate. It was going goood for the frsit few months until I had the saddest day of my life. It was homecoming game and I was really really sick. I told Erica that I wasn’t going to go and she should go with her friends and it made her really sad and I felt really really bad. So I decided to go and surprise her.. I was walking towards the gate and in the corner I saw my girlfriend making out with one my friends….. my heart just stopped and it felt like it was cut into a thousand pieces and then I took a picture of them and I freakin called my mom to pick me up. I just stayed in my room the whole night crying because I gave her 3 years of my life.. that was the beginning of my emo phase.. On the day we came back from school she acted all innocent and saying that she didn’t butI showed her the picture I took of them and she started apologizing to me and crying at the same time and I jsut walked away because she can’t give me back 3 years of my life that I gave to her… After that I wouldn’t talk to anybody I was just alone in a corner everyday and have my hair cover my whole face and just gave up on love.. Until one day my best friends came up to me and straightened me back to the old Brandon and told me that there is somebody special for everyone in the world. I’m glad I have friends that are there for me if it wasn’t for them I would probaly be cutting myself. I hope I stay close to my best friends forever :D thanks guys ;]. Oh yeah my ex Erica is currently my friend now :) I don’t want to have enemies or hate anybody so I for gave her and she knows that we will always be friends and nothing else.
all I can say is no mattter how hard that person hurt you just forgive them because having the feeling of someone hating you hurts urself and the other person. Took me a while to recuperate since I’m a senior now hahaha but yea I think I’m ready tp find that special someone again :D.

hi i am a single male i am a good hearted person i am looking for a special someone that i can see myself with someone that i can build a realationship with someone i can give all my love to some i can take care of some i can hold and feel the love between us i am into cuddling and love to show alot of passion i want to find someone that i have alot in common with

I am 21 and In love with a Guy who I believe to be straight, we have become close friends over the past couple of years but I cant help the way i feel about him, I see him with Girls and I become insanley jealous because I wish it was me with him. When ever I see him I feel so at ease and cant help but look at him in a way I shouldnt.
Yet when ever Im not with him all i can do is think about him constantly. I wish this would end because it is the worst feeling ever been in love with someone you cant have. please can someone help me before I loose my mind?

I took a “quiz” on Facebook to find my PERFECT MATCH based on my birth sign (Taurus).
It says my perfect mate would be Virgo (8/23-9/22) or Capricorn (12/22-1/19).
My nearly perfect partner is Cancer (6/21-7/22) and Pisces (2/19-3/20).
I’m not sure I want a “nearly perfect” partner after waiting this long…

I dont have a problem dating guys but unfortunatly they turn not to be i am looking for. I was told by friends that i am a little picky while i agree that the special one has to be special i would not say i am picky i know i am not perfect and i dont expect any one to be so.

Every time when i go out with a guy every thing will be great at the start but after the first date i ask my self do i see a strong wonderful future with this person? i usually get negative answer specially as time goes by and i get to know him better. its when i look in to the bigger picture that i realise that he is really a very good date/boyfriend but for now only. So i decided I wont wast either of our times and i look for someone special. I wont date guys out of fearing singlehood or worring i am a lone. i will spend more time with friends and if is with a guy it will be with someone special.

I keep on looking until I find that someone who I’m looking for and that’s my story and I’m sticking to it.

Yes this is your best goal yet

yea finding that somone takes alot of observing the one
thing that i think everyone looks for is interest if u belive in love at first site well… its true u never know till u look at that speical someone in th eyes.

just be happy with wat u got and it will come to you
apitence is the greatest gift of all…

Sometimes, you know when things feel right, they just happen. They happen with ease, and you feel like it was meant to be, like you didn’t have to put any effort into it. Similar to how time just runs out when you’re enjoying the moment and want to hold on to it forever. You just know that you’ll get it, it’s yours for the keeping…that you’ve found it.

Then there are the moments when you feel like something wrong is about to happen…and there’s nothing you can do to stop it. A train wreck that can’t be unbroken, a feeling that makes you think ‘what went wrong’, ‘how could I have stopped this’ or ‘why me’. If you’ve felt this before, you realize when it happens. Your heart sticks, your smile fades faster, and

it
just
crashes

I’ve learned that nothing you do will save it. You’re better off walking away and letting the wreckage burn, hoping that you see the warning sign earlier incase you derail again…or just praying that the tracks don’t fail you next time…praying you have the courage to get back on, in the hopes of finding your perfect travel companion and a train that doesn’t crash.

I found him! Matti <3