flirt more

I realized today that because of how busy I have been with school and work that I don’t really interact flirtatiously very often with members of the opposite sex. Oddly enough, shortly after that realization, I was presented with a prime opportunity for flirting, and although a little out of practice, I believe I was more aggressive than I’ve ever been before, and it felt so good. It didn’t go anywhere, and I didn’t really expect it to, but just having that kind of light yet loaded banter with an attractive other is so satisfying. That made me decide to make it a goal to try and have some amount of flirtation at least once a day. If anything it’ll destress me, but most importantly it’ll help bring me out of this anti-social shell I’ve been in, too. I think this will be such a great goal to focus on, although I don’t know what the determining factor will be for accomplishing the goal. I guess maybe the culminating experience after three months of flirting more will be that I will be more social in public, gain at least one new friend through this, and experience less stress on a daily basis. So, three months of conscious flirting!

I think I’m going to remove this from my list.

One of the girls I work with informed me the other day that her cousin (who thinks hes a ladies man) told her that I scare him! He said I was mean, even though I’ve never said a cross word to him, hell I thought I was nice to the little snot! Anyway it keeps occuring to me that I give off the wrong signals. Im not a girly or affectionate person so I can come off a little cold and uninterested.

Im trying to work on being freindly and smiling more and making eye contact and sending off more flirty signals. I think the main problem I have is that most of the guys around here that are my age are either married, in a serious relationship, or they already have kids (which at 21 Im not all that interested in). sigh Im trying to keep my options open and make myself more approachable.

Started flirting and chatting to this real cute guy from my school. He was too young but it was fun and good for practice! He totally started noticing me and looking at me.

So my sister and I were at the movies and this guy approached me and asked where I went to high school. And asked when I graduated and I recognized him and I knew his name and told him and then I just kind of left it at that. Im not romantically interested in him but my goodness I couldve at least carried on an actual conversation with the poor guy! He was clearly trying to strike up a conversation and I just sort of shut the whole thing down…and the sad thing of it is it didnt even cross my mind at the time to try and keep the conversation going.

Im going to try and work on this. I already have a reputation as being a “ballbuster” since Im not all girly and flirty. I dont want to view as an airhead but I dont want people to think Im a btch either. *sigh Im going to try and work on this.

i like someone for the first time in like 3 years things ended babdly last time so scared of beig hurt >.<

And I’m a woman… And I so like him! I need to work up the guts to flirt with him a little!

...And just as fast as the positive attention came, it dried up. I should have known better!! 19/20 women on dating sites are angry, jaded, overly self-centered, or just plain messed up. And that’s just what I attracted…again. So never mind that. I will build relationships in the real world, by getting involved with…whatever. Anything. But nothing online!

Well, I signed back up on a dating site. Yeah, I know, but it was actually done in connection with trying to complete one of other goals. When the (one) person I was looking for on there didn’t respond, I started looking around and saw some awful cute faces! So I told them so! :c)

Between that and a funny – though very brief, and without a picture – profile, I got a LOT of attention in a very short time. Feels nice. :c)

Come to think of it, there is a woman who flirts with me unabashedly! But she is not available – yes, I know this is kooky – so I don’t encourage it. It’s still nice to trade positive attention with each other, though, so I just limit it to appropriate compliments.

;c)