Get people to fill out this johari and nohari thing...

Not really interested any more and certainly not a priority in my life (and I need space for other goals)

...you see yourself differently when compared to how others view you.

But I’ve found that most people have this side of them that they keep to themselves. (mostly insecurities) So I’m nothing unique in that respect.

Overall I’m pretty happy with the results. It looks as though I share enough about myself (apart from being seeing myself as shy, but coming across as confident… looks like I fake that part convincingly).

The Blind spot is the interesting bit. I’m still figuring out how to interpret that. It’s definitely given me food for thought though.

Thank you if you contributed!

...but it’d be nice if you could take the time (20 seconds) to fill out my Johari window.

http://kevan.org/johari?name=davewasthere

JohariNohari

Dominant Traits

80% of people think that maria_airam is unhappy

80% of people agree that maria_airam is cynical

60% of people think that maria_airam is distant

60% of people think that maria_airam is impatient

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (40%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (40%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (40%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (40%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (80%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (80%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (20%) distant (60%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (20%) chaotic (20%) impatient (60%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (20%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (20%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Dominant Traits

83% of people agree that maria_airam is independent

66% of people agree that maria_airam is searching

All Percentages

able (0%) accepting (16%) adaptable (0%) bold (16%) brave (16%) calm (0%) caring (16%) cheerful (0%) clever (16%) complex (50%) confident (16%) dependable (16%) dignified (16%) energetic (0%) extroverted (0%) friendly (0%) giving (0%) happy (0%) helpful (0%) idealistic (16%) independent (83%) ingenious (16%) intelligent (50%) introverted (0%) kind (0%) knowledgeable (0%) logical (0%) loving (33%) mature (16%) modest (0%) nervous (0%) observant (0%) organised (0%) patient (0%) powerful (0%) proud (0%) quiet (0%) reflective (0%) relaxed (0%) religious (0%) responsive (0%) searching (66%) self-assertive (0%) self-conscious (0%) sensible (0%) sentimental (0%) shy (0%) silly (16%) spontaneous (0%) sympathetic (33%) tense (16%) trustworthy (33%) warm (0%) wise (0%) witty (16%)

This is a very interesting exercise to see how much your perception of yourself matches the perception of people in your life.

Positive Traits

Negative Traits

Okay I’m not as sensitive as I thought I was. 100% of people think I am self-satisfied, that doesn’t even sound bad to me!! Also I got that I am 66% (2 out of 3 ppl) embarrassed, yes that is so true and 66% think I’m insecure. No one yet put that I am stupid or dull thankgoodness! One person said I was unreliable (I also said I was unreliable, because I’m never on time for anything!!) One person thinks I’m childish.

And as for positive things, 4 ppl filled this out (someone chickened out on the nohari)

75% of people think that Im confident
75% of people think that Im spontaneous

50% think I’m happy, intelligent and cheerful!

I need to get more friends to fill it out.

I’m afraid of the nohari. I think I can already pick out my weaknesses from that list – but I think I would feel so bad to have someone come right out and put that I’m selfish and dull and stupid and ect ect. I might not be literally stupid, but I act that way around people because I’m that shy type that gets ditzy and giggles a lot to feel at ease lol.

I guess I have to find out if I’m really as bad as I think I am.

...who can?

I actually found the nohari window to be much more useful, personally. I mean, they’re my friends, so of course they think I have good qualities. But, I want to know what I should be working on and it was surprising, really, for the most part, we had the same feelings as to what my short comings are. Of course, there were a few I didn’t expect but that comes with the territory, right?

So glad I did this! And the johari was just a lovely pick-my-up – great for one’s ego!