discard my abandonment issues

I have abandonment issues from my teen years. It is hurt me and my marrage. I am seeing a therapist to try to talk out things.
Any ideas that might help ease the pain would be helpful

thank you

I no longer have this problem.

Not so long ago, they did not exist so much for me, but now they are here full force. I am fighting my own destructive relationship tendencies.

They do not so much exist in my present self, but that is not to say they are gone forever. I will continue investigating this.