Lynli is Self improving money manager
I think this quote says a lot
1 week ago
When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.
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How to be less judgemental
It made me
happy!
 "Life is so much better when you are not judging other people"
How I did it: I just started being nicer to people. Its really more of an internal change of attitude. I just started giving people a chance. I would get to know them a little bit better before I created an opinion of them. Sometimes I was surprised to find people were nicer than I thought. Lessons & tips: Let things go. Smile at people Resources: Friends!
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It made me
At Peace
How I did it: Therapy and a lot of introspection. In the end I realized that my judgmental attitude was a way to compensate for insecurities I had about myself. Im not 100% non-judgemental yet but compared to 5 years ago (I took this goal seriously about 3 years ago) it feels like it :D. Read how I did it…
LaLaAji is learning espanol :)
It made me
Better!!
How I did it: Well i sort of caught myself judging people on the street and i stopped and thought " What gives you the right to think and judge someone if you haven't met them,like you don't know this person" my answer to myself would've been "well urm they do it to meee! " hahah but i just got tired of judging people and from then on i decided to give people the benefit of doubt and to take some people as they are,it benefits you in the long run and s… Read how I did it…
It made me
happy
How I did it: I took a lot of deep breaths and stepped back. I prayed and came to realize that a lot of things are out of my control and others too. People are different and they have their own way of living. I enjoy my life more, meet new people everyday and am very thankful for just being able to see the world through new eyes. Read how I did it…
It made me
Proud
How I did it: I found that passing judgement on others can happen without even realising that you are doing it. I had to become very aware of my natural thoughts and reactions to particular things or events that were taking place in my friends lives. I began to challenge my own thoughts and whenever i began to be critical or a bit "high and mighty" with regards to something that someone had done or said i would remind myself that we are all… Read how I did it…
It made me
who i am.
How I did it: I got to know some people better, just through things I was doing, and I realised that so many people were actually so different to most people's perception of them. And gradually I've just realised that every single person is an individual and has something awesome to offer you and the rest of the world. There's no limit to the amount of people we can let in our lives, so why not embrace the wonderful in every single person we meet? Read how I did it…
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Judging others stems
1 week ago
from a lot of negative feelings I have down deep inside…jealousy, bitterness, resentment, anger, pain, low self-esteem, pride…
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!! Short-comings galore!
Well, the way I see it, at least I am now aware! And, Jesus takes all sins! He has a load from me!
My life with be so much better when I can work through this issue, which is actually a lot of issues!
I am humbled!
Tactfully... direct?
1 week ago
Someone told me today that I was tactfully direct, that when I was direct with someone it didn’t make them feel judged. This probably means that I have progressed towards this goal but can the two even belong in the same sentence? Tact and direct?
sparklebaby is not a hopeless case!
Goes with goal #1
1 week ago
but I have such a problem with this, I am adding it as a seperate goal. This problem takes so much from my life! :(
elsey is invested in things
how?
2 months ago
i think i need to add a new step to my thought process. something like “so what?”
Untitled
4 months ago
I’ve been slowly giving people a chance and have found myself much better for it. So far its let me be more in the moment and just have more fun in general. Im not 100% over it but little by little this habit has been getting chipped away. Now if I can only work on being less judgemental about myself…
MistressMaz is watching the bill and researching law degrees
I have
4 months ago
been very impartial today, providing arguements from both sides of the coin but still being very assertive. is this just the beginning or just a one-off? we shall see!
I want to be less judgemental
5 months ago
It seems like there were times in my life when I was able to enjoy other people more, for whatever reason. I believe this led me to be less judgemental, and I’d like to be less judgemental.
Hello all
8 months ago
I have been super judgemental ever since I was a kid. My mom is very accepting of everyone, but I’m like a mini version of my dad, the judge. I’m not happy with this aspect of my personality, and am trying to learn the line btwn having opinions and passing judgement.
