RachaelWhere did the 'five years' come from?
I don’t know what I was basing that estimate on, perhaps if I had still been single, or perhaps if I thought ‘yeah, we’ll have had a few kids by then’. I don’t know. What were you thinking, 2008 Rache? Anyway, this is still something that I see as important. I do seem to be a little on my own on this one, however.
I do not see adoption as a thing that only infertile people do as a ‘last resort’, which seems to be the census if you tell anyone you’re considering adoption at some point. I think if you can give a child a home, love, a family, why wouldn’t you do that? It doesn’t mean I don’t want biological children, if we can, then I would like them too :) But I don’t see why the general view is that you have one or the other, but not both. 8 months ago
