Yeah! I’ve found a place of my own!
It’s in Rotterdam, it’s a big city. I don’t really have a good reason to be there. Not a particulair goal.
But still I’m very excited ánd scared at the same time.
I’m moving out and I’m freaking out ;)
It’s a big change for me. There seems to be a lot of change. 1 month ago

I’m looking for it now. Trying my best but there’s not much I can do now but wait. Wait for offers that fit my choice. I’m excited. 6 months ago

I’m investigating house sharing at the mo. definitely not my thing but desperate times… 6 months ago

I’ve lived with roomates, decent and bad. The bad ones really put the not-so-bad ones into perspective.

I’ve also lived with a boyfriend who broke up with me after we moved in together.

And I’ve ended up back at my parents twice. I hate living with my parents but, I just wasn’t in a place living with people I could stay with for a long time, nor was I financially able to live without roomates. Sucks. 7 months ago

My parents won’t allow me to work at a restaurant or any place that would keep me at night in order to make money to move out.

I’m stuck :( HELP!! 15 months ago

Every 6 months or so for the past how ever many years, I tell myself “THIS IS THE LAST STRAW!” about moving out on my own and leaving my parents. I get amped up. Look for work. Act like I am my own boss. Then after a while, I get tired… and I get lazy… and I slump back into my parents’ arms. And it is annoying being there, but at least I’m safe.

I’m determined to achieve this goal. Today, my mom raised all sorts of hell with me. I am almost 23 years old. I’ve done this back and forth for years. That’s it. I’m done. I’m going to figure out how to make it… and how to not get burned out in the process! 20 months ago

This goal is on hiatus until I graduate in December. 22 months ago

I just realized as I was sitting with my… my boyfriend… that … I am an adult. I’m 22. I’m supposed to be bearing children. I can feel intimate with a man. There’s no big parade or big deal about it. You meet someone whom you enjoy their company. They enjoy yours. Spend time together. Share feelings with each other. And it just happens and you just enjoy it and you think a little bit about what your future holds. And its not a dumb thing to do or consider because I’m 22. That’s what I’m supposed to do.

Likewise, I know how to fix my own car, computer, food, etc. I shop for my clothes, school needs, hair styles, etc. I go to the doctor when I need to, I get my medicine when I’m sick…

Its just a strange transition into knowing you are…an adult.

Only difference between ME and what I see as an adult is that I live with my parents. Their house, their rules.

I graduate in december. Either my parents get used to the fact there is a 3rd adult in the house or I leave. I’m saving my money now to prepare myself for the winter and what may happen then. 22 months ago