forgive my parents

..But I am an adult now. I will try to make peace with their crapness and make a new start. I am not my parents.
Not a day goes by where I don’t remember their hurtful criticism (they still do it), my dad’s temper, my childhood that I lived in fear, my dad hitting me, my mother’s jealousy and insults. Now they want to be close to me? It’s a joke. 1 day ago

Don’t have a clue how I can do this. They aren’t supportive, even through a destructive relationship followed by a healthy decision to get out (which you would think a family would be supportive of….no?) – I unfortunately resent them. I doubt they will even come visit to celebrate my marriage. 1 month ago

This one will probably take a while. My parents are both very religious, and unfortunately not very supportive of my life choices. I am angry at them for that, and although I am a grown woman, I still resent them. I want to forgive them, and accept them for how they are. I know they aren’t going to change, so I should stop letting their disapproval bring me down. 1 month ago

sometimes the feeling to hate him comes to me still. So do I hate myself. 5 months ago