find Mr Right

I met Josh in December and we’ve been spending a lot of time together lately. I really, really like him and I can see this going somewhere. He’s wonderful because he’s completely open and honest and reliable and kind. He’s not afraid to talk about anything. He’s not afraid to talk about wanting marriage and kids someday, just in general. It’s a rare thing, and it’s so refreshing. He’s a fantastic kisser. It’s still all very new, but I am so happy and grateful that he is now in my life.

I’m going to find a good one in 2009. I am, I am, I am.

I deserve a good one.

So Nick has been ignoring me all weekend and I can understand why even if he doesn’t. I am always surprised at the fact that guys, who are supposed to be so strong, can’t handle the idea of having to come out and tell a girl that he doesn’t like her.

I know he probably just doesn’t want to hurt me by telling me, but it would be so much easier for me just to hear it so I can stop being mad at him and move on.

So I finally got up the nerve to tell my ex(nick) that I still had feelings for him and that I wanted to have another chance with him. I had broken up with him a month or so ago for various reasons. He was all for getting back together, until tonight. He got a call from his ex girlfriend of 3 years and she wants to get back together now too. So now he needs to think about who he wants more and I know that I will not make the cut since we only dated a few months and I know he still has feelings for her.

It really hurts that I was finally able to put myself out there and be vulnerable only to get knocked down again. Maybe its for the best, but it still hurts.

I have spent most of my life going from one relationship to another without ever really being able to get close to the person I was dating. I have gotten into a few situations that I wish I hadn’t along the way but I know I have grown from each experience so I know that eventually I might be able to find the right person. I don’t meet many guys outside of work and I have already dated two guys that I work with. I don’t know if I could ever use an online site.

Any advice?

hey im trying to find the right guy for me so if your out there holla at me

So I’ve been on a lot of dates with a lot of different guys in the past year. Most of them were really nice, but just not for me. I am 23 now. I would like to find the right one for me.

I am totally picky and cautious when I am considering relationships with people. I cannot fake feelings I don’t have; it shows all over my face. I have actually been dating one guy for a little over a month now. He’s a great guy. Really smart and cute and affectionate and often funny. I enjoy hanging out with him, but sometimes he just drives me crazy with his weird gestures and the way he says things, etc. It seems petty and shallow, but I think: If he’s annoying me already, is it only going to get worse?

I’ll put it straight out there: I want to get married. Once. And I want to wait have kids for at least a couple of years after I am married because I want to travel (I’m a bonefied Wanderlust) and enjoy time with my significant other (and get my Master’s degree in the meantime) before we decide to try and expand our family. This freaks me out a little bit because I figure that if I met the right one in 6 months from now, I’d want to be with them for at least a year before we got married, and then if we waited 3 years until we had kids, I would be nearly 28! As women, doesn’t it feel like times a’ tickin’? Scary business.

I should also say, I don’t believe that there is only ONE person out there for each person. I feel like so many people would be screwed if that were the case! I believe that there are many people out there in the world who you would be perfectly happy to build a life with. It’s just about finding a balance between love and logic for me.

More later… This is a hot topic in my life right now… ;)

i want to find THE ONE! only problem is that i dont think he exists, well not round where i live anyway. i think i need to stop thinkin bout meetin him and then he will come in to my life, but im so lonely that i cant stop thinkin bout it. there is a bloke i really like but i dont know how he feels. i only seem to meet the men that like me but want to be with my friends.

still havent found him…

After 3 failures at relationships, I had alomst given up but then in Sept last year I met the greatest guy I’v ever got to know. yeah yeah it sounds like a dream but it’s not. There’s this saying.. “when u meet mr right, you’ll just feel it, you’ll just know HE is the ONE”... I know exactly what is meant by this now… This is 4ever. I’m happy and everything is perfect. True gemtlemen and honest. Open minded and trusting…

I have found MR RIGHT (”,)