. i have tried EVERYTHING. and i mean EVERYTHING . he filled a hole in urs & my heart that hole will stay empty unless filled with the right thing. i had to learn the hard way and a pray you wont have to. . . it hurts so so much. i dont know another way to express it except for just pure pain. i tried whatever i could. whatever any book, friend, movie, magazine, advice i could get said. the only thing that has truly made a difference is this. jsut look it up. it cant hurt? i mean can anything really hurt more then you’ve already been hurt? its worth a try. hey i mean anythign is worth a try to see any sign of hope for LIVING again. NOT as a broken beat up heartbroken zombie. so just try it . grab the book and jsut freaking look this up. . .
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Psalm 147:3
and the verse closest to my heart, my hope that i will be able to be free of what the one i truly loved and devoted my life to did to me. the way he can make it seem as if i never existed. replace me like furniture while i spent months in agony just wanting to know if there was a single thought of me in his mind.
“The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” PSALM 34:17-18
now write it down. stick it in your wallet. put all your hope in that promise. and dont give up. there’s got to be a way we can all pull through this and forget the one that holds us back from the life we are supposed to be living! not this one full of misery all because we gave everything we had to someone out of pure love deep in our hearts. there is someone else out there that will appreciate the amount of love you are capable of giving. especially because you are capable of giving so much since you still cant forget. just like me. i keep this verse close and put all my hope in it that there is a life for me to live & if i truly trust in what the Lord has said he will help bring it to me and leave the pain behind for something new.
“You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present.” – Jan Glidewell
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We were together for 7 years, I gave him my heart and shared everything I had, now he is gone and all I want is to forget. My children miss him, my family looks at me as though someone is missing, and he is! I don’t know how to stop loving him! HOW can I move on????
mercedbrat15 is goin to church cuz I need sum god then chillin with my friends!!
AT 1ST I THOUGHT THT THE BREAK UP WAZ THE HARDEST PART BECUZ I LOVE HIM SO MUCH BUT I WAZ SOOOOOO WRONG MOVIN ON IS THE HARDEST PART!!! ITZ HARD TO GET HIM OUT OF MY MIND ND TO THINK THT AN OTHER GIRL IS TAKIN MY PLACE THT A OTHER GIRL TOOK EVERYTHING I WORKED FOR!!!!BUT AT THE SAY TIME WEN WAZ 2GETHER RIGHT B4 WE BROKE UP I TRYED ND I TRYED BUT HE WAZ NEVER AROUND BUT IM THT HES NOT A PART OF MY LIFE 4 GUD I WANT HIM BAC CUZ IM HURT ND I DNT NEED HURT!!! I WISH SO MUCH WE COULD JUS TURN BAC THE HANDS OF TIME BUT WE CANT SO IM SITTIN HERE WRITTIN THIS CUZ THERES NOTHING MORE I CAN DO BUT HOPE SUM1 CAN TELL ME SUMTHIN I CAN DO 2 GETHER OVER THE HURT!!!!!!
how i can put him behind..??
im still kept thinking of him..
aaarggghh!!!!
I have been with a guy , my ideal for last 2 years. He helped me out in everything, he made me realized that i m not less than anyone. He is my life but few months back his secretary told me that he is married and has two kids ….... what should i do now. He is everything everything to me. I am unable to forget him .. ihave tried my best but i can’t . I can’t tolerate that he is with another lady. He said that i still love you.. but can’t marry you.What should i do. I tried to sucide once but was not successful.I can’t live without him I Love him so much ..Plz help me out its really affecting my life..my relationship with my parents, brothers ..and sisters.Life is meaningless to me now plz HELP ME OUT…
i ned love with all my heart that is alm that i ask from i ned love with all my heart that is alm that i ask from i ned love with all my heart that is alm that i ask from i ned love with all my heart that is alm that i ask from i ned love with all my heart that is alm that i ask from
i was with him about 1 year…i luved him so much until i cant imagine my life without him…he is 1 year younger thn me…but 4 me age is just a number as long my luv n his luv is true..but god didnt bless us!!!both of us often get misunderstanding in all circumstances but end of the day v will settle it n bcum a loving couple…when v r separated for 3 months he was listen 2 d 3rd party comments bout me which is not true n he decided permanentaly to break off with me.he put the blame on me.i try 2 explained what was goin on bt he still dont wana trust me?he should noe wel bout me,bt he didnt,y did he came 2 my life ???he didnt trust me at all…he hate me but y i cant hate him n i luv him more n moreeeee..y do i still luv him?y do i pretend dat he is still with me?y do i feel the pain n he is enjoying his life?y?y?how 2 4get my past life ?
pls tell if nyone of u have done possible done it.
pls tell its suckin away all life from me.
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