be a great wife

i know how. i am pretty sure that i am doing good :) haha. i still ask if there is anywhere i need improvement (honestly and i dont get defensive about it) but he keeps saying know. i do know that my patiences needs some work though. so i will try to keep that in check

Frustration caused me to say some mean things to hubby last night. I know I hurt his feelings. I need to learn to keep my negative feelings in check.

Hubby and I are going through some rough moments now. But we are committed to working them out.
We are learning to admit our faults and make compromises, to let go and walk away when things get heated, to not yell or call names, and to understand its OK to not agree on everything.

so i am finally a wife. so i guess i can work on this some more. or better. or something. haha. :)
anyways. i am still trying, working and loving. so i think i am doing pretty good. its just good to remind myself once and a while that this is somehting i should be striving for.

Ah, just celebrated our third year wedding anniversary, and things are going as wonderfully as ever ^_

I’m noticing one of the best ways of doing this is just to smile and be cheery, it really does go a long way :0)On discovering this, i’ve also realised that its me, purely me that makes my husband tick (and heres me been thinking i’m the insignificant one)

i am still working on it. i think that it is a life time journey quite honestly. i am doing all that i know to support him. yet he is still stressed. i know that is inevitable, but i simply dont like it.

does anyone have suggestions on how to help make his stresses go away…. and they are ones that i cant do anything about. like having time to fix his car because he works too much… (i.e. i cant work for him. nor can i fix the car… because i am not that talented… augh)

I want to strive to be a great wife to my incredible husband. I want to support him and appreciate him.

I made my husband dinner before he came home from work. :D I did that last night, too. I know he appreciates it. I mean, I go to school during the day, and he works hard all day and earns us money. The least I can do for him is make him dinner so he can eat when he gets home.

I also cleaned the house! I picked up, and vaccumed and all that. So he’ll be happy when he comes home.

I feel like I’m currently, a great wife.

I don’t think I’m a horrible wife, but sometimes I feel like I could do so much better. I don’t cook dinner enough. I know it’s really nothing, but to me, it seems like something a wife should do for her husband, especially after a hard day at work.

I support my husband in all that he does. He just got a new job, and I know he’s nervous about it. Today was his first day. I know that I need to make sure to tell him how much I love him and how much I appreciate him working for me. I don’t have a job. Well, I do, it’s just working for my mom though, it’s nothing major. So he works for the both of us.

Well…that’s all for now.