have a better relationship with my mom

is the kind of person that can only really focus on one thing/person at a time… she feels we have a good relationship, but she hardly answers the phone to me and we never spend time together.
i want to be close to her but it cant be one sided

I absolutely love my mother to death. I know she cares about me, and that’s great. I just can’t stand her personality at all. She has this high and mighty superiority complex and has a habit of giving herself the okay to do whatever the hell she wants because she thinks that two wrongs will always make a right for her and only her.

I think the only way that I can ever achieve a better relationship with her is to leave her and only see her once in a while so that we can stay with the pleasantry exchanging and nothing more.

My mother hasn’t been the best mom and that’s something she will freely admit. I have a tendency to feel rezentment toward her and it keeps me from having a relationship with her. I would like to be able to forgive one day and move on with a normal relationship.

i CANt REALLy SAy i L0VE My M0M.M0St 0F My LiFE i FELt i HADN’T HAVE FEELiNGS T0WARDS HER. i ALWAYS FEEL LiKE iF i DiSSAPOiNT HER ALL THE TiME. i HONESTLy D0Nt CONSiDER MySELF A BAD kID. SHE IS SO ANGRY ALL THE TiME.ALL DAy PROBABLy EVERYDAy YU FiND HER SiTTiNG ON THA COUCH WATCHiNG TV, THATS iT. W0W, BUT WEN WE FiGHT.iTS EXTREAMLy Vi0LENT AND HARSH. S0MTiMES i CANt STAND G0iNG H0ME AFTER SCH00L.PLUS MY GRANDMOTHER iS JUST LiKE HER BUT MORE ANGRy.i DONT KN0W WAT T0 D0.S0MTIMES.N0 ALL THA TiME I WANT TO LIVE WITH MY DAD.

Me and my mom have never really been the closest. I love her, but sometimes I get so frustrated with her. She is too complicated she thinks that she is always right, and that is why we argue so much. I try to tell her that she needs to stop being so mean and she never listens and tries to learn. I don’t know what to do anymore, I try to talk but she doesn’t listen so yeah.

I’m sure a lot of people have this problem. My mom and I are SO much alike that we tend to bump heads sometimes. I love my mom more then anything and I really just want us to have a great relationship. I think some of the best advice I can give anyone who is perusing this goal along with me, is something I read in a Cosmo a few years back. It said, plain and simple, just accept that your mom is who she is. Think about that. It will help, trust me:)

hahaha yes. it’s the best thing. we’re getting along so well, and i really do love her to death, so i’m really glad i made the effort to be a better daughter. hope we don’t get into any big fights.

i believe we’re getting there. we’ve reached an understanding about how she runs her life and how i run hers.

i think it’ll be best when i move out of the house.

i don’t know, we’ll see.

<3

will sadly my relationship with my mom is very bad so i am hoping that i can work on it but when ever i try to tell her how i feel she thinks i am just acting so i can get what ever i want but seriously i really want a good relationship with her cause i know one day i will regret talking to her the way i do now..
and after all she is my mother and she deserve respect..