Finally, the 16th of november we went to court for the last time. Belgium law states that the only thing i have to do now is wait. ... And that’s what i’m doing now…
FREEDOM, here I am!
How I did it: Signing the paper was the easy part. It was all the stuff beforehand that was so hard. Even though I really wanted the divorce, I experienced a lot of emotions I didn't expect when it was signed by the judge and I knew it was final. I know that not all couples can do it the way we did but I was glad that we were able to have one joint lawyer to file the papers because we were able to work out everything ahead of time together as far as splitting property and money. We didn't have kids so I'm sure that made the logistical aspects a bit easier than some cases. Our lawyer was able to waive some of the requirements since we both had agreed on everything and were both seeing therapists. I'm really glad I did it vs staying in a marriage that wasn't healthy and was not helping me meet my life goals and dreams.
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Finally, the 16th of november we went to court for the last time. Belgium law states that the only thing i have to do now is wait. ... And that’s what i’m doing now…
FREEDOM, here I am!
I want to marry my fiancee but am stuck until things settle down – and every time I think they’re going to – they don’t!!!
ACK!
My ex-wife is in Australia, and I’m stuck here in America, and I have no idea where she is, or how to contact her anymore.
So how the hell do I divorce her? What do I have to do?
Anyone with ideas, let me know… Thanks!
ixyk hasn't beeen on this site in ages!
It took me a while to divorce my ex. We were separated for over 2 years, but I was avoiding doing the paperwork etc. I ended up getting a paralegal and she looked after everything. It was surprisingly simple and it gave me back a true sense of freedom. Good luck to you!
I did this and I am feeling much better now that I have left her and out on my own. I am facing some tough issues and I know that I can do this, feel good about it and show my kids that I am a better person than “her” anyday!!
Good luck!