3 years ago

big time.

im working on chucking the insecurities away and i am now actively rebuilding my confidence.

1. confident in my manner with M…
2. im dressing up more sexy for a change, to show off the curves instead of hide them.
3. im not letting things that happened in the past with one ex influence how i react to anyone new in my life. i treat everyone as different. i will trust and love like i have never been hurt. 3 years ago

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3 years ago

had enough of this shit. i cant allow myself to treat myself this bad.

enough is enough!

be strong, believe in yourself, be confident, love urself, treat ur body like a temple, go for what u want, find work u enjoy, let others in, let go, have fun, enjoy life…

just do it. its like im waging a war with myself. positive A vs
negative A.

seriously fed up with being like this, feeling like this, living like this.

ENOUGH!!! stop hurting urself!

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today. nothings changed. but i didnt break down like yesterday so thats a start. i think i just felt really crap inside and i hadnt shared it with anyone so i jsut needed to have a cry yesterday.

i need to work on feeling 100% better and happy again. i have a lot of negativity in me that no one sees. i treat my self like shit.

i need to start loving myself again. it will take time. working on certain aspects of my lifestyle will make all the difference. and stop hiding behind the mask i put up.

i need to belive in myself. one of my old bosses said that to me last year. cos she could see through me i guess. she could see i was a mess on the inside.

she said “believe in yourself A”

these things are hard to do, ive struggled with these kind of emotions all my life and its prob why my life has turned out the way it has but i have to keep on. one day i will get there

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not feeling in a good place emotionally… felt like this the last couple of days. and i havent felt this way in months.

feeling pretty hopeless and dont really care bout anything anymore

feel like i dont have a voice anymore, i cant let the real me out.
my confidence is all but gone. just wanna hide away from the world.
i have nothing. i am nothing. i dont belong here, i dont belong anywhere. its all a big mess and i dont know how to fix anything anymore

been a long time since i felt this bad. sitting here crying and i got mascara accross my face, can see it on my hands as i wipe the tears away.

just got to get through this time. hopefully i will feel better tommorow… 3 years ago

i read on someones goal list on here = the goal “love with out fear”
i thought yes, thats a good goal and one i would i can identify with but i find my self thinking not only do i have to try and learn to love with out fear but more importantyly i need to learn to LIVE WITHOUT FEAR…

:( 3 years ago

isnt happening any time soon :( 3 years ago

these last couple of days. i feel like im making headway with this. ive erased my ex from my life. im ready to tackle my weight and fitness in a new headspace and from a new better angle. i also am feeling more positive bout things. and im beginning to love myself again unconditionally 3 years ago

this will ever happen is if i lose a substantial amount of weight.

ideally 24 kilos thereabouts.

my weight is the root of all my insecurities and i feel like it is stopping me from enjoying my life. 3 years ago

a great potential bf because of it, and my ex saying he was fed up with it, i have now decided this is a goal i need to focus on.

need to lose my inferiority complex, stop being scared of being hurt by men, learn to trust men, and dont write people off so quickly. this goal applies to my whole life not just love.

be openminded, confident and secure in myself. and dont let mens silly antics make me make rash decisions, that jeapordise (potential) relationships that i end up regretting. and ultimately lose the guy, as has happened today :’(

at the same time, if a guy is not into me, hes not into me, i will walk away. end of story. 3 years ago

I keep coming across all these posts about people in a relationship wanting to get over their insecurities. My insecurities are preventing me from getting in a relationship. I am a go getter, and I am pretty attractive, although most of the time I find myself changing my outfit 20 times before I leave the house and hating my hair no matter what I do to it. I always go for guys that are hard working, good looking, outgoing and fun. Upon dating them or hanging out with them I shy up, am at a loss for words and stuggle to be myself because of a constant fear I have of what people think of me. I am yet to overcome this,and it has plagued my life and led me to get hurt time after time when guys date me but never want to get in a relationship with me, but then a few weeks later they are in a relationship with someone else. I am 22 and still have never been in a serious relationship and I am very jaded and insecure and I don’t know what to do to overcome this! 4 years ago

i’m not sure how this works. but i’m here to say that i very insecure. my boyfriend of nearly 2 years just told me he wants to break up with me because i am constantly nagging him about what he is doing, who he’s with, and that sort of thing…ps…we do distance. anyways, after a very long talk on the phone tonight…we came to realize that this all boils down to me being extremely insecure. i just started working out hardcore again and thats making me feel better, but what else can i do? i love this man and i think it is over if i don’t change my jealous insecurities. help 4 years ago