Make my best friend fall in love with me

Ok where to begin… About 10 years ago I met my Best Friend, naturally we weren’t bff’s right off the bat but it dodnt take long at all. Eventually, my bff’s (m&f) began to date, lasted for almost a year and split up. For 6 years I didn’t see or hear from the m bff, now that he’s not tied down to theist recent ex he’s made the initiative to get a hold of me so I figured we could work through him ditching our friendship for her (it happens when were young). We hung out almost every day enjoying every moment of each other. The more and more we hang out the more and more I find things going on with me, for instance, jealousy, longing, alone when he’s not around. This is completely opposite from my normal disposition. I’ve been in love before, had long term relationships ranging fom 1-6.5yrs so this is NOT my first rodeo. Well he’s just out of his 6 year relationship as well and it HAS left him a bit torn. One night I had to tell him my feelings so I did I said (2nd time I tried to talk about it via txt MSG cause if it was in person I’d get emotional: I had to really sit n think about everything and weigh my options n feelings along with the anticipated outcome. As u know I’m fairly universal and I can see different angles of a situation. And with that I couldnt hold it back it’s litterally making me loose sleep.  Love is such a hard thing to distinguish when ur new too it or even to admitt to when you’ve been through it. N I’ve been at the mindset that I want this person to “prove their love to me” before I can commit to them. But with u I feel like I’ve been trying to prove it to u for the last 10 yrs or whatever one way or the other. I know u know I really love u and I mean that in every sense of the word/emotion/feeling or whatever u wanna call it.

So what do u think? In sorry if I overwheelmed u but this is seriously ON MY MIND!  I don’t want to push u away though so I’m so scared of the outcome. 
The response was:  
You wont push me away i just dont kno what to say.

Well the thing is that he started seeing a woman he just met that is a drug addict and I don’t understand why, why he won’t just giv me a chance. He claims it’s because he always screws things up in relationships and ends up hurting someone and he doesn’t want to hurt me, but this chick is I guess expendable cause he really don’t care for her. I honestly feel this is an excuse and I’m like the Lil sister he doesn’t want to hurt so he tells her what she wants to hear and leave her wondering the truth. I’ve read “he’s just not thr into u” and this seems like a typical case “There’s nothing worse than having no answer, in business, friendships, and especially romantic relationships. But the bad news is, no answer is your answer. He may not have written you a good-bye note, but his silence is a deafening ‘see you later.’ What do u guys think? I truly love him ad I’ve loved him for years!
 

Hi i have a good friend who bullied me a little at school but opologised for his actions and now he’s my best friend. I talk to him everyday and have a little crush on him. We have dated twice and decided we are better as friends. He is currently going out with his second girlfriend after me and he seems to have fallen to hard to fast and not that i am jelous but i just want him back all to myself again. I love him and have always wanted my first kiss with him. I don’t know how to make him realise that i am still here and it’s not all about his girlfriend because he tells me everything

i am beyond confused.
i have the most amazing “best friend” in the whole world (boy)
we go to the same school, same class.. we sms each other everyday.
he cares about me so much and he is the only person i share everything with.
he wrote me poems.
told me he loves me.
we have such deep conversations
what is going on?
what are we?
what do i do?
what should i want?

first of all, im a guy and I’m gay but still in the closet. well i fell in love with my best friend (a str8 guy) well at least he says he’s str8. And well i dont know what to do. Sometimes i think he’s gay too because everytime we sleep over we kindda cuttle. But we both pretend we’re asleep. like we sleep in the same bed and i’ll hug him and he lets himself, he even gets closer to me. But then when we’re too close i guess he freaks out and tells me not to hug him anymore. then after a couple of minutes have pass, he puts one leg on top of me and hugs me with it. Then i get closer to him and hug him back with my arms. And after a few minutes he tells me to stop but then he turns around and places his butt in my crouch. so i go with the flow, get really close to him and hug him. then he gets mad so i turn around and give him my back. Out of the sudden he hugs me with his legs and arms and we both fall asleep like that. What does that mean? Is he not as str8 as he says he is? what can i do? I someimes feel that i cant be without him. i want to kiss him but im afraid that he’s gonna get mad and never talk to me again. Is he gay too but like me, he’s still in the closet? Please help me.

My best friend and I have been together a very long time, he was my best friend since 3rd grade but then we broke off for personal reasons for 4 years. We are back to being best friends now and he started dateing my friend(girl) for almost 3 1/2 monthes. She broke up with him and started dating another frind of mine(a guy) a week later!!!!!!!! My Best friend(guy) said that he trusted me, and that he liked me. alot. but that he wasnt ready to date anyone right now. For some reason, I don’t believe him, I even asked him multiple times, and he says yes, but he isnt ready to date yet. I know that he needs time, but I just don’t believe him. I keep thinking that when he is ready to date again, he would never even think of me as a girlfriend. I was forced to tell him that i loved him, i almost told him then cut off, and he kept asking me about it, so i finally told him. His only reply was “thanks, that means alot to me” I just dont know what that meant…please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

my best friend and i talk every day by texting. he never really talks to me in school except for the days that the girl he loves isnt there. also me and the girl he likes best friend dont get along that well so he tries to stay friends with them and ditches me.
it always ends with a fight between me and the other girl. he always chooses sides and he chooses the other girl because her best friend is the girl that he like loves. so he ditches his best friend(that is in LOVE with him) for a girl he doesn’t even like, he just does it for the girl he likes that HATES HIM!!!
i love my best friend more than a friend. what do i do?

I’ve been in love with my best girlfriend for 15 years now. we talk every day. shes is in every part of my life. I can’t take it anymore. she is the only women i have ever really loved. i need to quit wating on her. my hope for her is torcher to me. we either need to start dating each other or i need to grow apart from her.

dont know for sure

I’ve changed my mind.

well… i broke up with my boyfriend
but my best friend in question still has a girlfriend
he acts like he doesnt like her
but then again he acts like he doesnt like me sometimes too
i dont know what to think anymore.
on friday night basically every person under 18 in byron bay was drunk in the main street including me and my best friend.
i swear he hugged every girl he knew in the street except me. i felt so childishly sad. it was truly pathetic. i was barely drunk too.
sorry this is like a diary entry, yuck.
i dont want to ‘make’ him love me, i just wish he would. ive turned my life upside down because of him and he doesnt even know it.