make good friends

i would like to make good friends those who are ready to open the mind for exchanging ideas.

I’m keeping up with them better online, so that is definitely a positive. Most of them moved away, so I still need some decent friends. That is harder than it should be.

Since going back to school, I’m older than most every student there, and being the domesticated sort, I don’t care to party. It’s been nice because I’m “the smart one” whom everyone asks for their phone number so they can keep up with class if they miss a day! I also find myself wanting to mother them, which is generally taken quite good-naturedly.

I’m almost the age of the professors. I have very high grades and my professors seem to like me. But the professor/student relationship is not exactly friendship. I’m really feeling left out because I am in neither world.

Tried to make a friend after taking my final exam from this professor who is about my age and reminds me of so many of my cool high-school friends who moved away. But alas, the boundary is there even though I will not be taking any more classes from this prof. and even though we have a great rapport.

Achieving life goals is very big for me. My husband is awesome and very supportive, but is a person of few words and I hate to impose on him to talk to me when I know he is so tired.

Wish it wasn’t such a lonely road, but am hoping to meet some people who are more in my situation. We’ll see . . .

My boyfriend is my best friend. I love him and his company, and I feel like I can trust him with anything.

But I’ve always had bad luck with girl friends. I just want to have the kind of friend that I have in my boyfriend in someone else. I just have this fear that if something happened to him and I (which is, albeit, unlikely right now), I would be alone.

I just need to know how to take a friendship to the next level- beyond casual friends and towards close, trustworthy friends.

It’s tough for me.

Always the same problem. I have some good friends and then I get bored, I ignore them, I’m not in the mood to do things with them. I take everything personally and don’t talk about it with them. And the distance grows.I wanna get reconnected with my old friends, I only chat with them on the internet, and I wanna make new ones that have a vivid spirit and they are crazy like me and love to do interesting things.I want them to respect my choices, feel they can trust me, never leave me outside of anything. I wanna share my secrets and my worries with them and let them support me and give me advice.

Hinduvaga vaalga “Anbe Sivem”
Be CoooooL
Keep in touch

I’ve always been a friendly person, bubbly, empathetic and fun loving. I love positive vibrant people who are down to earth. However I’m always alone. I’m not a good friend and tend to lose track of people. Due to betrayals, I tend to keep people at bay and not allow them to get too close. I want real friends, true friendships are really important to me. I deserve this.

I’m understanding the vital importance of being very cautious about what kinds of influences I put myself around; I already knew it was important, but I’m understanding this importance on a whole new level. I’ve been praying for God to PLEASE bring more good, stable, loving, mature, healthy, and discerning Christian influences into my life – that will lift me up, not drag me down. As the bible verse says…

As iron sharpens iron,
so one man sharpens another.

Proverbs 27:17

I need to be around those who are seeking the same growth, love, maturity, and discernment through relationship with God that I am, so that I can continue to develop and grow – and not get off track. Then I will be strong enough to better take care of myself and to lift up the weak and struggling around me.

So, I want to do this because most of the people that I’ve known and cared about have either passed away or abandoned me because of little superficial things like that I wasn’t doing what they thought I should be doing with my life and that I wasn’t good enough for them, etc. I would just like to meet people who will always be there for me, no matter what happens, no matter how other people feel about me or whether other people think that I’m a loser or not good enough for someone to be friends with me or I do not have the right job or the right education or do not dress right or do not act the way I’m supposed to act. Little, stupid things like that, which are not important unless you’re trying to climb the social ladder and you’re just there to use someone to get ahead or become more popular. I have met many people like that, and I’m tired of it, tired of wasting my time and my life on people like that, who do not deserve my friendship :).

I lost my best friend and I really miss her. I want to find another kindred spirit.

Ever since i decided to get married and have kids, i havent had much time for anything else. i lost contact with a lot of people since “i dont live that life anymore” i need wholesome friends, with maybe some kids of their own too…