love my wife more

I thought we turned a corner. I think it turned out to be a sharp bend on the same road we were already one. Nothing has changed really. We’ve just spent another year “plodding along”, putting up with each other, quietly enduring for the kids sake. It’s hard to admit defeat, but I guess sometimes love does not conquer all.

I love my wife, we had a give-and-take relationship. Expecting one another to do in return when things had been done. We had a speed bump here lately, she has distanced herself from me in search of her true feelings. We have dedicated to working out issues but the loss of my best friend hurts so much. we see each other daily and on the surface things go well. we even have honest talks daily, hopefully working towards better times. i miss her uncontrollably. I have realized the give-and-take relationship was based on selfish motives, so I’ve learned to love unconditionally, regardless of her feelings towards me. I’m in the midst of being hurt, confused and lonely. It seems even our closest friends cannot be trusted with our personal security. Jesus seems to be the only constant in my life, but even then it is difficult to stay true to him! I pray for better times, yearn for a deep connection with my wife! I love her more then my own life.

My wife is incredible. I know that I sometimes forget that simple truth. Life gets in the way. With two kids and a job I don’t really like, I be very selfish. Even if I try to hide it, it is there and it is unfair and damaging.

But, lately I have have been renewed with the deep love and desire to be close to her. I don’t know what it is, it just is. She is everything to me. I can’t believe I was blind to that for so long. It is like I have crawled out of a dark cave and am being blinded by a bright light.

I simply dedicate myself to giving her unconditional love. Now and forever!

I love my wife a lot but I could always love the sweet woman more. She is so amazing! I find more things to love about her every day!

We’ve had some good years and some tough years. I think we’ve turned a corner and we are on our way to some good years again. But I don’t want to just assume things will get better, I need to focus on and work on it.

She could always use more, always. So I always know what to do. Love her more.

my wife is my best friend, better than any of my male friends even my oldest ones, i would seek out her company in preference to any of them or anyone else. i want to and long to be with my wife every minute of the day and every minute spent away from her is time wasted, and if she doesn’t feel the same way then i’m not in love i’m an obsessive and i really am fucked !

Angie and I have been married almost 25 years…

One of the things I really love about my wife is the way she keeps me straight about who I am.

I am very prone to lie to myself…to the point where I can lose my way.

Angie is good about letting me know when I’m being too hard on myself and when I’m getting to big for my britches…

I love her for this…

I want to love my wife more.

We have just been married for a month, dated for 5 years before decision on getting married. She has been a wonderful person, beautiful, magnaminous, and has always forgiven me for my mistakes. We are very different people, different upbringing and different experiences and as such, brings about conflicts.

When we were dating, there were many things to iron out before coming together, issues like where we should live/ dinners/ friends etc etc. and I am glad we managed to stay together and even got married.

However staying together hasnt been a bed of roses. Even simple things like the bathroom vanity top being dry is an issue, the toilet seat being down, the cleaner coming at odd hours added stress etc etc. So it has been tough for us. And to make matters worse, I drink too much and recently got into trouble- angered her to bits.

But seriously I want to love her more. And i think I can do so my listening to her more. I know I should do that, but keep failing in my attempts. I am accused of not listening to her. But I always counter by saying is not I am not listening but I cannot understand! Any men out there with such an experience?? Any ladies out there who can enlighten me on what I should do to improve our marriage?

So I will try my best to LISTEN to her, love her more and I hope the things I do will please her. There is nothing more I want in this world than for us to be happy.

I love you!
...for all the reasons I don’t say
Is it because I am not willing to take the time?
Is it because of my past?
Is it that I am too wrapped up in my career?
Is it that I follow in the footsteps of my father?

I love you!
...for the way you stand behnd me even when I am wrong.

I love you!
...for the way you overlook my temperamental character.

I love you!
...because we are so much alike.

I love you!
...because we are so different.

I love you!
...because you have helped me become the person that I am.

I love you!
...because I love that person.

I love you!
...because of the mom that you are.

I love you!
...because you don’t try and change me.

I love you!
...because you have changed me.

I love you!

My wife!