Set realistic standards and expectations

But especially for the goals I have defined for myself.

.more kiss less distance

.truth !
.resistance against getting into trouble
.hard work
.no more prejudging
.no more snap decisions
.no more less procastination
.open mind

just looked through my 43 things list and im going to make it more achievable

I just wrote an entry on self-esteem and realized that my unrealistic standards and expectations have been making me unhappy and preventing me from having fun, doing new things, and enjoying what I have. So this is a new, much needed goal for me!

;)

And to measure myself against ridiculously high standards. Sometimes I don’t even realize that I have those standards until I am confronted with a situation that brings them up. Like when I got an A- on a paper in a class. That would make most people happy, but to me that was a sign that if I had just worked a little bit harder on the paper, just started it a day earlier, just revised it a little more carefully…. THEN I would have gotten the grade I was “supposed” to. This is clearly not a positive attitude and I would like to change it.