make up with my ex

my ex-boyfriend is a total nob tbh. i liked him at first. then he was too clingy, constantly holding my hand and following me around instead of havin some guy time with his buds, so i told him that. then after that he was constantly asking me “am i being too clingy??”. it got very annoying! His mate was going out with my best mate at the time. we’d been together for a while, when me n my mates had a sleepover. me and my bezzie emily were discussing our bf’s and that they had been falling out over me and my mate coz they were VERY paranoid. We decided, the best thing to do was to finish it with them. I finished Ben on MSN. He took it okay but then he got all stressy coz he said i didnt give him a reason why id dumped him! i had told him the entire truth. now he doesnt do anything but insult me! all the time! he says its because im really annoying but i know its because i dumped him! he needs to get over it! but as i am trying to be a nicer person i feel i should make up with him. how can i do that when he’s constantly insulting me? HELP!

idk wat to do

we were so fine bt i fucked it up bc i got angry at him so i PECKED anotha guy.

nd he knows it cuz i tld him. bt only cuz he thot i did sumthin way worse.

bt we arent together nd i tld him that nd he was cryin nd he sed bt to me i was with you.

see even now as i just wrote that i started crying bc i knew that THIS time it was my fault.

yea he lied to me about michelle…bt that doesnt mean he kissed her.
who cares if it was just a peck?
he tld me he wud forgive me if i quit talkin to that guy bt i tld him no.

wat on earth was i thinking??? y was i soo stupid as to not give up talkin to a guy i dnt even kno well for the person i love more than ever??

in the heat of the moment it was bc i was excited bout talkin to sum1 else.
isnt that sad? he was willing to quit talking to michelle bt i cudnt giv up talkin to that guy?

he was crying like i havent heard in months…telling me he loved me…nd all he asked of me was to quit talking to that guy…nd he was crying! asking me why?? why wud i do that to him?

im not gonna lie

hes lied to me so much..,.bt not about stuff like this.

so idk

i want him to forgive me so badly bt im also scared that if he does…wat if he keeps goin back to that jerk who thinks hes in control of ma emotions wen he gets mad?
by that i mean he says stuff like never talk to me again nd its over

yada yada yada

do i txt him or do i keep waitin?
can sum1 help? plz

An actual way to make up.
Some how I don’t believe it.

I just noticed that overall the percentage of “worth doing” is greater than the percentage of “not worth doing”, and that the things the “worth doing” people are in direct contrast to what the “not worth doing” people write…. the not worth doing people seem to have presuppositions that it’s not worth it, because of history, wheras the worth doing people seem to ignore those presuppositions and build from a new perspective… which I think gives me hope.

Like Gimme Skittles I just want peace of mind over everything that has happened and a happier healthier lifestyle…

I Don’t Even Want A Relationship With Him Anymore, I Just Miss Our Friendship, The Most Idiotic Things That Used To Make Us Laugh….

i’d really like to clear up a lot of things that happened between us, ya know. there’s a lot of things id like to say and i get the feeling we still have a chance somehow. crazy but hey, i wana achieve this one thing.

I can finally call my ex a real friend again. And it’s such a great feeling to patch things up with someone you who used to be everything to you. At the time i wrote my first post about this topic, I was so bitter and confused about what to feel towards my ex.. but things became really weird between us when I met my current boyfriend. My ex started acting crazy jealous, something he has never been, and made weird comments about my new boyfriend.. sayign things that just made him sound really insecure, like he didn’t want ME to date anyone else. I realized that how he was acting, was how I had been acting all along! Luckily, my ex is a naturally confident non-jealous guy, so after a couple months of accepting that I was indeed in a new real relationship, him and I began getting along again! We are actually friends again, and can even hang out once in a while. It’s so strange how things happen.. but I guess it’s really true that everything really does have it’s time and place in this world. :)

Well low and behold – the day has come that me and my ex are on speaking terms. Somewhat at least.

We spoke for the first time in 8 months the other day. It was a brief, apologetic conversation. But a good one.

And that’s enough for me.

:-) Goal completed.

Don’t do it girl!!! He’s an ex for a reason. He needs to stay that way. I took back my ex husband when he told me he wasn’t violent anymore… after 2 weeks I had to get a protective order and he got charged with assault and battery on me… in front of our 3 year old son!! I know that not all cases are like mine, but leave the past in the past. And don’t make the mistake of falling into the role of being his “booty call.”

Some things (and people) are better left in the past.