Write a will

So, I have been waking up with chest pains in the middle of the night and woke up one night last week with bad chest pains that got worse over the course of an hour. So, I sat down, finalized the draft of my will, printed it, signed it and then woke up my girlfriend and asked her (gently) if she could drive me to the hospital, which she did. Fortunately, it turned out not to be a heart attack. And, fortunately, the will is done. I can tweak it later if I want, but it’s done, just in case. Sigh.

a friend of mine recommended this site to me…and she is someone with a very complicated will to write. It is an online site that helps get it all started.

Hope to check this one off by the end of summer.

now to just use it

I guess it is just another thing to do. If I am dead why would I care what happens to my remains or the few material possessions I have. I think it is because I have a few things I would like for some people I love to have, I also do not want a coffin containing my corpse to take up space on this planet.

I don’t want to leave my family in a mess when I die. Not that this is an event that I want to schedule anytime soon. Being prepared is not a bad idea!

Worth it in the long run.

I finished this. Nothing official or nothing. I bought a note book, wrote backwards somethings I wanted to say. When Im finished the note book Im going to lock it in my lockable bag where I keep things valueable, both on the market and o senimental value

So, we’ve been talking about this since our first child was born. We had all the paper work and were about to actually get on it when we moved. Now, we are at square one…again. It’s just such a morbid thing. I know it is really a loving thing because it means my kid’s won’t have to worry about it later. But, seriously, ugh. And it means we have to discuss what would happen to our kids should something happen to both of us. Double ugh.

I picked up the paper work last week for $150 I can get this done..It’s not a guarantee but the more I document the better it will be.

I haven’t since I was much younger.