Got rid of the people I had in mind when I made this goal, but there’s always new ones 16 months ago
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some of the negative people in my life are connected deeply to the positive people in my life. I am not sure how to accomplish this:( 21 months ago
One simple thing, you set goals that are S.M.A.R.T.(Specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, Timed based). In that scenario, you did make a good set of things in your mind then right it either in a piece of paper or blog it.
The bad thing here is, there are still many people around us that are very pessimistic. Most of the time, they will tell you that you can’t achieve anything because your weak or just impossible to make it. The story of Colonel Sanders always inspires me to do things that is quite hard to finish. The story itself tells us to try and try until we succeed like Col. Sanders.
My concern here is very simple,I don’t want people around me that are negative. My extreme challenge that I face now is my mom. She always naggs me about my small mistakes and always brings up the past. Oh, how can I get rid of her and he negative nature? Her negative energy is too contagious. It leads me to nowhere and my SMART goals are cluttered everytime she’s mad. Hhahahhaa 2 years ago
It’s like washing your clothes, and cleaning house. Must be done on a regular basis to stop and keep dirty, negative and undesirable emotions and karma from these people off your spirit. 2 years ago
I want to rid myself of the selfish people in my live who never pause to consider the fact that they are killing me with their attitudes and the way in which they treat me. 2 years ago
How I did it: Your friends are an extension of your personality and what you seek out of life. Like it or not, you will become most like your 5 closest friends. Make sure you surround yourself with positive people that motivate you, not people that try to hold you back.
It took me years to figure this out, but it's never to late to change your life for the better. I used to smoke, drink, masturbate, and live in the moment. I looked at my close friends, and we all shared the same habits!
Negative people have negative habits. Positive people have positive habits. Get rid of negative stuff and surround yourself with positive people to change your life. Read how I did it… 5 years ago
I find myself thinking about people who affect me negatively less and less. I also find that the negativity that is present is bothering me less and less. It seems that becoming upset due to someone else’s words/actions takes too much energy.
I have removed a couple of negative people from my life altogether recently. I have also decided to play nicely with the ones who I cannot remove due to certain circumstances. If I am positive and determined to not let their negativity affect me adversely, then it’s no longer my problem.
I’m marking this as done for now. If I see myself being drawn back to the same type of person in the future I will re-add the goal. But for now I just need to remember that I can’t control other people, only how those people affect ME. 2 years ago
How I did it: It took me so long, because a lot of the toxicity came from my parents and other family members. It's hard to just cut off family. I managed to cut them out a few years ago, but still had some negative friends, etc in my life. I got really sick with a chronic illness, and that was the final kick in the pants that I needed.
In order to heal, I need as much positive thinking as I can get. I don't have the energy anymore to help these people or to listen to their never-ending misery. I've tried to help, but I simply can't.
At times I've felt guilty about my choices, but that's ridiculous. I know I need to put myself first. I'm happier without these people in my life. Basically, unless someone is enriching my life in some way, I've got no use for him or her. It sounds awful, but it really is so much better for my health and mindset. Read how I did it… 3 years ago