Finish and refine this list of 43 things

What have I done? Bought a big ass house. My wife started working and then stopped to have our daughter. I’ve pretty much given up pop. Lost 25 pounds . . . gained 10 back. I have been fostering my inner chef with occasional success, sorry family. I am more at peace, happy more often.

Failing at physical and social goals. Life seems too chaotic right now for rituals. My wife sets daily goals that often include maintain. She is right. Having 3 kids does take away from personal aspirations. All of sudden your goals are centered around your children. I hope I never have to include those goals on 43T. 43T is about me . . . sorta.

I know I can do better. At the same time I sometimes wonder can there ever be a time where I can say good enough, I’ve done it! Behind everything is that hope of arrival. Of sitting back saying good enough. Or is it in my nature to focus on the deficients and strive to counter / eradicate them. This begs the deeper question of is it easier to strive for what you want or to be satisfied with what you have?

Anyway, a year and a bit later. Reading my list hmmm . . . some of these things don’t fit anymore. I’ll be changing them. But not now because it is late. Well actually not, but I go to bed much earlier now, most nights. Part of my pseudo night time routine. So, I go do that now.

I need a plan. Pulling this goal out and going to use 43T to get that plan.

Now my list is full of things I am doing or actively working towards. No more goals of the someday I will do this variety.

Well time and life is a waisting. Got get these things done! Start filling up that old been there done that column with some new stuff. We’ll start with this one.

I have been people surfing and looking at all the cool and creative things they are doing. Planning on cheery picking a few new things to do.

Also thinking of overall how to utilize this site as an effective partner in achieving the things I am doing. Best “theme” for these things I’ve come up with is only listing things that I am actively doing or want to be actively doing. Plans for the future that can’t really be worked towards, perhaps should be filed away and taken off this website.

Lastly I have a few ideas for some brand new goals to pursue utilizing the 43T environment.

This will all come to a head in the coming weeks.

Have retweaked some goals and have a little more tweaking to do. Got to learn to spend less time on 43T and more time working on the goals so that I have things to report.

Good job people! I’ve discovered some pretty cool and creative goals on here. Things I’d never thought of before. Going to take my time picking my last 10 goals. Have a few in mind but want to do more research.

This is a lot of work setting up things. Doesn’t help that this site seems to crash frequently. Thought about posting a bunch of things that I have accomplished in the past but going to hold off on that for now. I may want to save that section for things I accomplish in the future.

My favourite thing by far is all you people out here just doing your thing, consider this ONE BIG CHEER for everyone since the robot is stingy in the amount of cheers it lets me give. My you all have the power to succeed and the wisdom to enjoy the journey.

In limited time I’ve come up with 29 things. I’m still learning the quirks of the site.