be outgoing

With drugs and alcohol, it’s easy. Without, not so much.

i want to have more friends than just my select group. i want to go out more and with different people. not the ones that i see everyday of my life. i want to find friends that live in different cities so that i wouldn’t feel trapped in this small boring town.

just like most of ppl’s comments here,I’m not talkative at all and only talk a lot when im around my close friends or family. (or sometimes not even family) but the thing is that i feel no awkward feelings though i stay quiet with my family. one good thing bout me is that, I smile a lot (may be its b/c im a shy type of person) and ppl actually like my smile : ) hehe so I guess I’ll be smiling straigth at the person I wanna talk to, then start saying hi, give the person some compliment first..like…WOW! YOUR HAIR LOOKS GREAT TODAY!!...or in case, you have not seen a person for a long time, I would say..WOW! LOOK AT YOU! YOU GOT SO MJCH PRETTIER!!...sth like that..

I believe that once you have made a nice starting, have built an impressive first impression with the person, the following conversations would just flow…or if not, at least, your smile and compliments allow the person to know that you’re at least ‘friendly’ though not that talkative, he/she might be the one, instead of you, who would find topics to talk about with you. ..

hope this help!
SMILE and BE looking HAPPY + give compliments!!!

i know that if ppl only knew who i was that they would really enjoy being around me but i’m so shy sumtimes that ppl don’t get 2 see my gregarious(big word i learned in english) side.=) i can be really outgoing. i just want othrs to know that.

I’m tired of not meeting people because I’m too shy or not confident enough to go and say hi to a pretty face. To help me achieve this I’m going to attempt to look directly into the persons eyes and give them a nice smile. I’ve been told that if you make eye contact and hold it, it means you’re confident and smiles mean you either like them or you’re a friendly person. So now I have a plan now I have to go do it!

i’m really shy when i’m not around my best best friend which i’m really loud around. my other friends i’m not that loud, and i just talk a little. and when i’m in class, i’m really quiet because i don’t know what to say. i wish i could just start a conversation with anyone and be loud and outgoing 24/7. i have been reduced to being outgoing only around my friends and at home and it really sucks. at school people always say “WHY DON’T YOU TALK?” and i just want to say shut the f* up!!!! please help. it’s a really sucky life to live. :,(

i want to express myself more clarly and outgoing with ppl.i hope i can do it.

i’m tired of letting nerves get the best of me.
I’d like to speak my mind and have fun.

I have been a shy girl all my life. I know I had missed a lot of opportunities of knowing many people because of this.

But I don´t know how to start being more outgoing… its difficult to change my personality after all this years :(

I like it. =) I even got a boyfriend from it. ;)