become more talkative

few years ago i wrote here.one thing i meet now is there’s not much chance for me to practice this as i study at a college where u only need to get professional qualification so communication wasnt that important anyway.i have a meeting with some of my old classmates and i found out that they always have a topic to talk to !!and i dont :(

I have a new job, and a new coworker to talk so yeah I’ve been talking a bit more, ha ha

I talk constantly. my family and friends get annoyed I talk so much. But once I get around people I don’t really know I go like on mute. And its so hard to get me to say something because I am afraid of being shot down and stuff. I really want to be more outgoing and not out of control talking. And my friends always remember the ‘good ole days’ when they first met me and I was really quiet. Plus when I want to talk to someone I don’t know what to say and like stumble with my words, and ask to many questions. Can anyone help me?

The problem is, especially since I’ve moved, I don’t know what to talk about. Everyone here seems really intimidating and shallow. And that’s fine. I have no problem with superficiality. I’m just not sure what to talk about. These people seem obsessed with celebrity, gossip, and tearing other people down. That’s not my style. Can’t I just find people who are thoughtful, funny, and interesting and not catty and two-faced?

I’m meeting my new Japanese friend and her friend next week, so I don’t really have a choice but to TALK in both English and Japanese! LOL

so I was talking to my coworker today, since we had no work basically

There was an awkward moment of silence during my tutoring session last Sat when I relaized OH CRAP I SHOULD REALLY TALK MORE!!
I mean, with friends and parents it’s easy, I even talk when I watch my favorite TV shows. I read somewhere you should make “movie comments” out loud when you’re out and about. Of course, keep it clean.
I actually hate when there are moments of silence when I can’t answer or maybe when I gave a really really REALLY answer. I don’t talk about junk, gossip or garbage only things I think are relevant and FUN. So yeah, I guess I’ll have to change my way of thinking.

hi i want to be very good talkative . can you give tips to become tlkative

So again a good thing to do is go visit someone that’s an idea amd i think is worth doing it.TALK, TALK, TALK! WORTH DOING IT!

This quote explains that people tend to lose relationships, tend to be ignorant selfish and getting to the point when they feel alone and helpless.

“There is a vitality, a life-force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and will be lost.”
- Martha Graham

So be more talkative, find something to talk about, I’m still working hard on this.BUT WORTH DOING IT!