understand guys

So my ex invited me to a performance that he was guesting in with another band and I thought I would be a nice Ex girlfriend and prove that I could make this work out as a friendship. We Broke up about a week ago. So to my Surprise, I get there, I see him, He sees me and I see him Wrap his arm around another girl! What the Hell!!! I know I dont dig him anymore, but I’m pretty sure that he only invited me there to shove it in my face how quickly he’d moved on. Why the Hell does this make me so upset?! Not Jealous, Just pissed off. I left as soon as I could. I didn’t even get to see her face… just the back of her F*ING HEAD!!!!!!!!

It bothers (Joey) that I dont have any fashion sense. Or at least to him I dont. I don’t dress like i’m walking down a runway everyday, but rather to be comfortable. What bothers him most is that I dont now the difference between normal jeans and fancy jeans. they are both jeans! it makes no sense. He wears a either a polo shirt or nice button downs everyday. Even if we’re going to the park! I must admit, they look really nice on him, but I just dont get why he doesn’t wear a tshirt sometimes or shorts. It’s odd to me. interesting though!

That’s what she said jokes? That’s all I ever hear anymore

Yeah.. guys confuse the crap out of me.

All of the guys I talk to, send me mixed signals.. it’s like most of them want to be more than just friends.

Oh & there is currently this one guy who has NEVER talked to me, but he gets his friends to walk into the middle of my biology class, and hands me art he drew for me. Kinda creepy and out of nowhere.. it happens often though.

I have a long way to go, until I understand guys.. :/
ahhaha help?

I’ve liked this guy since I met him. Once I got to know him, I started liking him even more. We’ve become pretty close & maybe that’s not good. I duno. He texts me EVERYDAY! no matter what. If he doesn’t, he calls OR I see him. & the thing is, HE starts the convos. I do once in a great while, but by waiting for him to text or watever makes me feel like I’m not “needing” him & he actually wants to talk to me. I don’t understand y he kisses me, cuddles with me, & all that but doesn’t ever say we should be together or ne thing. Sometimes when we start getting real close, he’ll kinda back away. I’m trying to do the same & it works but then I get caught up bc he prob notices & is really nice & stuff so I fall for it again. ALL his family & friends hear stuff about me & wanna meet me & some of them I don’t even know their name. Maybe he’s taking me for granted, keeping me around bc he’s getting some stuff from a relationship but not all the attachments. I guess I should stop wanting to hang out with him so much & it might test out if he really likes me or is just taking my company until he finds a gf…

ok peoples i need help… there’s this guy and pretty much whenever i’m walking down the same hallway w/ him he either
(1) if i’m in front of him he walks up like right next to me and my friends and goes like the same pace we are but doesn’t look at us or anything..
(2) if i’m walking behind him and he sees me he’ll turn around from the way we were both walking and pass me and keep going…. i don’t get him help….

I stopped at the bar after work 2 meet a few friends. One of the guys likes me a lot & has 4 a really LONG time! When I got home, I got a text from him sayin that he should of walked me 2 my car bc he wanted 2 kiss me but wasn’t sure I wanted the same so didn’t. That’s like # 4! hahaha not tryin 2 sound conceded or ne thing but I wana b single! Not that a kiss turns into a relationship but I dont want them thinkin that they have a chance(even tho they might). I just don’t wana be with ne one except that guy & I know I might be turnin down someone else that might be even better than him but I’m fine with that. I’m kinda glad he didn’t bc again I think bout the other guy ALL the time. Not that I shouldn’t have fun & it would ruin something later on if he found out I kissed someone but it would be in my head that I did something wrong. I really like him & I’m pretty sure he’s the one I wana spend 4ever with <3 The other day when I was hangin out with him was great. When he kissed me goodnight, he asked if I would wana move into a house with him next year!! We've talked bout it b4 & he's even started lookin at houses by my parents house bc he knows I want 2 be closer 2 them! I think it might be lookin good (hopefully) so I'm just gonna continue 2 stay single & give him his time. Hopefully he'll come around sooner rather than later.....

Sooo me & this guy r broken up right now bc we both have a lot to take care of on our own b4 we start something, if we ever do. I really really really like him and I’m givin him his time and all that but sometimes we talk bc I miss him. He misses me 2, at least he says so. We both think we would be great 2gether once all this other stuff is taken care of. I just don’t understand that he loves talkin to me and being around me and says he’ll call and DOESN’T! Not everytime, but most. If he cares about me so much y can’t he take 2 min out of the day to say hi?? That’s all I need, I don’t need or sometimes don’t wana talk to him for a long time. I don’t wana sound needy but it drives me crazy! If he eventually wants to be with me (when the timings right) then shouldn’t he try and keep me around, instead of possibly losing me 4ever? If I have to get over him I can, which will take a LONG time, but he doesn’t know that….

and then an ex asks me out of the blue,

i give up trying to figure
any of it out…

go with the flow…—xojk

Who knows what they really want? i mean this guy tells me he likes me and he wants to be more then just friends, but he won’t go out with me because he says it’s not himself.
What does that mean???