Get over a guy

I want to get ova him

I have liked a guy for a while now (10 months) and I am officially going to get over him. My friends and family are very supportive and I am going to try to talk myself into saying that he is not worth my time. I have wasted too much time on him already.

Wow, where to even begin. Okay, we met a year ago around this time last year i’d say. we talked tons and tons. over the summer we become really close, expressed our feelings for each other, yet never saw each other. he became somewhat of a bestfriend, & of course he was into my bestfriend. I hated it, he would tell me one thing and turn right around and say the same thing to her. they were always on and off. then i had a few boyfriends in this whole time period, around november i was dating some football player and we ended up really close again, and he didn’t know i was dating this one kid. and i had to tell him so things went down, and he was mad for the longest time. christmas came around and this was kinda a blackout period for me i dont remember it that well at all, he bought me a braclett, teddy bear and something else and left it in my locker at school i thought it was the cutest thing, but yet something was going on with him, we weren’t on good terms. as christmas came, it was really akward we didnt talk. then my birthday came two weeks later and he avoided me till the last minute, it was like 10pm he decided to message me happy birthday and left it at that. about 2 more weeks later he had gotten over things and for the very first time we hung out. not gonna lie it was amazing. then for the next 4 months, we hungout every single weekend no matter what, we started dating the first time then other people got in the way, my bestfriend of course and another guy i was talking to that gave me the attention he wasn’t that sounds awful, but he could never make up his mind so of course i wasn’t gonna sit around and wait, i’m young boys come and go. so we broke up for about a month, then decided to get back together. and things have gotten really really bad, and i just wanna get over him for the last time ! i want him out, i dont wanna feel the pain anymore. i feel so empty, as if i can’t go on without him. but i’m not happy this way, with or without i don’t know what to do, just that i want it to finally end.

this is kinda for all the people trying to get over someone. i recently just got over my ex, i realized that im young and i got my whole life ahead of me and theres so many more people ima meet, and he didnt deserve me ;]]

You can’t change nobody that is a waste of time, sitting around tryna change somebody; if someone shows you who they are…believe them! get up and go on with your life…its alright sit around be depressed for a minute, cry do whatever but don’t stay there to long, get up and go on With your life, cuz u no what I learned
if somebody wants to walk outta your life..Let them go! Especially if you know you done everything you can do, you done sat around and been the best man or best woman you can be and they still want to go. Let them go! whatever they running after, they’ll see what they had in a minute but by then its to late cuz half these people you sitting here crying about and worrying about two three years from now u aint gunna remember there last name, you know you be seeing some ex’s few years from now and your like what the hell was I thinking I must have been lonely as hell : I never said it was gunna be easy, it’ll get easy when u learn to love yourself, when you get to a point in your life where you look at people
and you go ok look wait a minute you or me…u will make a decision,
and it’ll get easier everyday I promise ya, u jus got to make it thru you got to learn to be by yourself I don’t understand these people oh I need somebody lord where’s my man lord where’s my woman that is crazy as hell if you don’t know how to be by yourself what you gunna do with somebody else!? Stop praying about it shut up and wait go work on you, that’s what that time is for, get urself self together! I’d rather be in a corner by myself with a puppy and a goldfish and be happy, then to be sitting around with someone is my house, im wondering what the hell they there for. You would be surprised to hear the things people put up with just to hear someone say they love them. That’s crazy I don’t understand that! I can’t live in dysfunction im sorry. ~Madea (Madea goes to jail)

i don’t think i will ever get this goal off..it’s been like what? 1 year or more since i told myself to forget about him and start a new life. this is so pathetic. he’s the only person i ever needed to make me happy.

we’re ok.. (i guess).. we text each other every now and then, but we fight over things every now and then. he told me that even if I turn the world upside down (if my grammar serves me right), he will not change. he’s just the way he is. i’m so tired. but all this, i’m willing to endure..just because…

Hi all, ermm i’m currently trying to get over this really extraordinary guy. Don’t get me wrong, he still means alot to me. He’s a very important part of my life at the present moment. It started out like this, i met him through what some can consider a friend, we started talking and surprisingly we bumped into each other quite often during that period of time. He was in this group of friends whom i knew then as only acquaintances. So it went on for about 2-3 weeks and i really enjoyed his company..his laugh, his jokes, his sarcasm, his personality..just everything about him that one could possibly think of. At that time i suppose you could call me gullible as after a while i felt as if i was in love. I had my first kiss with him..it was Amazing! The memories are truly unforgetable but then about 1 week after doing so, i received a text message from him saying that it wasn’t going to work out between us. It was at that point in time where everything around me just came crashing down, my heart was torn and shattered into countless pieces which till now are still scattered everywhere. I cried for an hour straight that night just thinking about him, to me i believe its safe to say that he was my First Love. I didn’t talk to my parents about it cause my mother is against me dating (shes very over protective) and so i talked to my sister. She was a great help but the problem is till this day, i still can’t seem to get over him. Its been roughly a month and a week since the text and i still Love him. He mentioned in the text that he just wanted to be friends and me being me..i agreed. Since i thought, how much worst could i get from that point right? At least being friends is better then being enemies. However, to my dismay, he started avoiding and ignoring me. This gesture of his just hurt me even more. Now i just don’t know what to do. I miss everything about him and i just can’t seem to get over him. He is someone truly special to me and so i can’t let go. If you have any comments please feel free to suggest any advise to me. Anything given is appreciated. Thanks.

a couple months ago i re-met a guy that i have had a confusing tangle with before. He appoligied and wanted to be friends. so from the first day of school on we have been hanging out every day, in our group of friends. I really started to develop feelings for him- how he would hug me, play around with me, talk to me, look at me, i couldnt get enough of it. after a couple of weeks i had realized there were several others under the same treatment of him. A girl far away, a girl from another school, a girl i had never met before, and a girl who was a new friend of mine. i should have fucking known what he was all about. I later discovered there was one girl- who he clamed to me they were just friends- that he prioritised her and I was just the one that happened to be wherever at the time. I denyed that i liked him. i knew personally inside that i could do so much better than him, him being so imature, and that i was better than all the girls he showed interest in. They were nothing, and i was not going to ammount to them. I started telling myself that i only wanted to sleep with him, not really love him. i was sick of it. i did like him, alot. i couldnt show it around him because the way he is around girls is not the way i am around guys. but he knew. last saturday we got wasted together- you know the usual what happens at the party stays at the party- and i know has does not sleep around. the next day he barely seemed like he acknowledged the fact that out of all the girls, i was the one he slept with. he was with me and my friend christina ( who he likes) and gave me shit about how i took his jacket (which he gave me) and i’m just thinking, “so out of these two girls, the one who you slept with is the one you treat like shit?” what and asshole! im sick of it, but the loving eyes he gives me and the hugs and the happiness he shares with me is so mesmorising that i cant get past it. i need to, but im afraid to watch him be all over my friends and leave me thinking ” why them but not me?”

Ok, Long story short: We’re over. I’m no longer mourning. I was before, and as a result I tried to talk to him at our Homecoming. I don’t mean to toot my own horn, but I got dolled up for it, and I looked like a fricken model. Keep that in mind. Anyway, I tried talking to him and asked if we could work it out and get back together. He said that he thinks it would be best if we remained friends and he needed to concentrate on his grades…yeaaaa ok. It’s been a week since that happened. Quite frankly, I’ve lost all feelings towards him. Actually for now, I’m feeling negative towards him. But oh well, thats life. I’m taking a break from dating for awhile whew I’m EXHAUSTED!

Ok, I broke up with my boyfriend, and told him that I wasn’t going to Semi-Formal with him. At first he said “Your not going?..umm..ok” and I walked away with my head held high but I was dying inside. The next day, I stayed home, which was thursday. I was still hurt, but my dad said “Be nice to him. Treat him as if you first met him. It’ll kill him inside. Believe me.” and my older brother agreed. So the next day, I go into school. Unfortunatly, me and him get paired up together to do a science experiment. Surprisingly, he was nice to me, and I was nice to him. That day, whenever I saw him in the hallway, I smiled and waved. I talked to him in some of the classes we have together. Finally, during last period, one of his friends came up to me and said “Hey, ——still likes you.” I just smiled and said “yea.” and walked away. When I got home from school, I signed online. He IMed me immediatly and starting talking to me, but I knew he wasn’t quite right. But I didnt ask what was wrong. I still continued to be nice to him. I had my cell phone near by, and his friend kept calling me. He’d let it ring once, and then hang up. I had 10 missed calls from his friend. I could tell immediatly, by the way our conversation was going that my ex-boyfriend and his friend were hanging out together. I was confused. I thought he didn’t love me anymore. I mean, we havent went out on a date in three weeks. He preferred his friends over me. So, I talked to my mom about it and she thinks that he realizes now what he’s done…So, maybe…their’s a small chance of hope??

By the way, I’m sorry I ramble on and on. I just like to get all this off of my chest lol ^^;

I plan on ending it with my boyfriend. I still love him though. I am doing this for myself and to show others that I am a strong person and will not be walked on. My boyfriend does not treat me with respect. He does not love me or care about me anymore and I have realized that. It hurts so much to let go. Partially, I blame this on myself. The same thing happened last year. I also let my ex-boyfriend affect my grades.(I am a Sophomore in High School now) I won’t go into details, but I promised myself that I will be cautious and will never let my heart do the thinking for me. For a while, it worked. But as time grew, and we became more serious (we’ve been together for 8 months now), I started to fall in love and get attached.

So to keep me from rambling on, I just want to get over my boyfriend because he’s distracting me from what is really important, he only makes me cry and depressed, and I think I deserve much better than him. Right now, I feel very heartbroken and I feel that no one feels the same way I do. I feel alone. I talk to my mother and she helps me but I just feel so confused right now. I could use a couple cheers from people. That would be really apprieciated.