stop caring what people think of me

im mildly mentally retarded i was made fun of through out school and tried to end my life many times i care what people think of me way too much i know i should stop but idk how

In middle school I was picked on all the time. Then when I got into highschool, I started to do things my own way and just trying to enjoy life. I gained valuable friendships because I was more confudent. When you are with people you care about it doesn’t seem to matter anymore what anyone else says. Just be you. And you’ll be a much happier person for real.

I let it get me down so much. Who are they anyway. Hmmf but i just can’t get it in my thick head not worry what people think of me. I know that you should remain positive and not let it get me down. But yes, there is a but. Why do i still let it get me down. Sometimes it gets so bad that i isolate myself from these people that i think, think bad of me. How silly nuh. But one thing i cant stop it at the moment. But i hope oneday i will be confident enough to be the person i want to be and not care what people think. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx&xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx I will let yuou know how it is going. Cioa

I had to stop caring in eighth grade when I changed schools or I would have been the most miserable person in the world. The less I seemed to care about what people thought, the more people began to think of me. It’s the best thing in the world to not feel obligated to wear a facade everywhere I go. I felt so alone for a while, but it gave me time to learn about what I really want out of life and to figure out who I really am. I’ve made so many awesome friends since then and met the love of my life. They love me because I let them get to know the real me- not some conformist. Yeah… it can be hard, but it’s a heck of a lot easier than being miserable. Good luck and lots of love!!!

You will never be truly happy if you are worried about the opinions of others. You must accept yourself, and not worry about whether or not others do.

who cares what other people think, by caring you will not do everythin you desire. So so what you think is right.

A lot of the time Im really good at this, I dont let peoples judgments effect the things I want like tattoos & piercings but Im a very self consious person about 75% of the time… I need to deal with this. I know life is way too short to worry about what people think, and ultimately I really like who I am.
The other day I told my nanna that I had 2 more tattoos and I wanted a lot more, knowing that she would over react. She almost cried in the middle of a chinese restaurant. But Im not changing who I am. She said she worries that I wont get a house or job because of it and that it gives off a bad impression, but I explained that at the end of the day that is their problem, people shouldnt judge so easily. So I suppose Im good sometimes. I just get my down days. lol.

everything is so much better if you just STOP CARING. especially if you’re in high school or middle school when your every move seems to be scrutinized by EVERYONE. but once you start saying, doing, wearing whatever you want, it’s liberating and the judgamental eyes look elsewhere. sometimes, people even start seeing things your way and instead of being miserable and weighed down by the opinions of people who don’t matter, suddenly- you’re a leader.

i mean really, who care what other people think. just be happy with your self and other pople will be happy with you to! who cares what others think!

yall try to be wayy too perfect for everyone else! who cares what people think of you if you dont like yourself!
you be what YOU want to be and not what other people want you to be.
its your decision, not theres.