Live my life without regret

I MET A GUY ABOUT 14MONTHS AGO AND HES GREAT. WE STARTED OFF AS WHAT YOU WOULD CALL ENEMIES…AT FIRST I DID LIKE HIM AT ALL I ACTUALLY HATED HIM..WE NEVER GOT ALONG . HE WAS ALWAYS MAKING FUN OF ME AND HURTING MY FEELINGS. AFTER AWHILE WE GOT TO KNOW EACHOTHER AND WE FELL IN LOVE..O YEA HE IS ALSO MY NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR. BUT NEWAYS WE FELL IN LOVE AND HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM ON JUNE 15 2008. IM SO EXCITED. I DO NOT REGRET GIVING THIS GUY MY HEART, HES MY WORLD AND I WILL ALWAYS LOVE HIM FOR BEING MY BEST FRIEND..I WILL NEVER REGRET LOVING HIM!!!1

Unfortunately living without regret is impossible. But what is possible is learning how to deal with that regret. I wanted to make ammends with my ex-girlfriend. She had something else in mind, which seems to be like pre-meditative anger over a false accusation. But I am learning how to cope with. I won’t deny that many if not most of the problems in the relationship were of my doing, but altogether I believe I am learning a lesson here. Sometimes in order to let go of something we have to hold onto it first. We need that sense of ownership before we can loosen it. This is probably the same with emotions though I am no expert. But I believe we need to hold on to our hurt, feel it and own it, and then we can loosen it, hopefully in more constructive ways. I still want to be on good speaking terms with my ex, but I don’t believe now is a good time, as she has had quite an attitude problem, and I have been a train-wreck. We were both feeling emotionally unstable. This is not a good time to try and make ammends. Living without regret may be the ideal, but I don’t think its possible.

fuck “regret”. everything happens for a reason. don’t dwell on historic events.

and when I succeed in that I have no regrets, even if the situation or experience is painful.

I have regrets about the mistakes I made with my sweetie, who is now gone. Actually, while I am sorry I made these mistakes I don’t regret making them so much as I don’t like not having an opportunity to make ammends and make it different.

So I am clear making ammends is the right thing but since that option is closed to me, I must find some other way to accomplish it.

Maybe if I just focus on one at a time I can manage it.

should be able to feel happy with where they are, and if not where they are now, where they are going. life is too short to be constantly regreting decisions we have made, even if they turn out to be the wrong ones. lift your chin, take it in your stide, get through it and smile :)

i figure, i’m going to make a million mistakes in my life. so why not learn from them, rather than run from them. so no regrets, even with all the stupid things, and dumb positions i put myself in my first year at school. i wouldnt trade a single a thing, moment, or, person!

I do my best to not regret my decisions/choices. They are all opportunities to learn.