give a speech

This was the most frightening item on my 43Things list, but I actually got through it! I had to practice it many many times to feel comfortable. And I even video taped myself, just to get a feeling for how I looked – especially for what my nervous habits were.

So, I basically memorized the core content of my speech to feel comfortable. When it came time to give it, I was nervous as hell… but I did it. I was also able to ad-lib some.

I say “umm” too much (where I should have a transition), and my voice is shaky. I mumble… or at least don’t speak as loudly or slowly as I should. I have to concentrate to say words clearly. But my eye contact is way better than I expected. I was able to smile and laugh some, and definitely one of the key helpers was to breathe deeply.

Now, I definitely can’t stop here. This is a step in the right direction, but I can’t let inertia hold me back anymore.

Joined Toastmasters and had my first speech the other day and it went really well. Was nervous, but got through it in one piece. Felt great to have done it!

i have alot to say, i just need to say it.

but am getting better at it!