find the right girl

I thought i had the girl of my dreams. We dated for 2 years before she broke up with me. All while we were dating she would tell me how much she loved me and how she wanted to marry me and be with me forever, and i believed her. I was committed to our relationship 100 percent. After that its kind of hard to think that i can trust any1.

well, i have loads of friends of which are girl but i just cant be able to find the perfect one =( but i know she is out there somewhere (i know i sound pathetic)

Yeah the hardest part of finding the right girl is the first initial thoughts of i dont think she will like me (and this is a very hard thing to get over for some guys) so with this the guy will never approach the girl and will never actually know if she likes him. Some people always think they are not the right guy for her and she will just think he is a loser and the feeling of being denied by a girl u like is not very nice so after being denied so many times the guy shys away from approaching girls and feels alone when all his other friends have girls and good relationship. This sucks so much when this happens (trust me i no) So any replies on this would be nice.

Pretty important, but she may be closer than I think.

I mean more to find the right girl I will eventually marry and spend the rest of my life with. Thats what I mean by finding the right girl.

is it a coincidence that my second goal is to stop wasting time?