littlemissfickle2 is getting back to herself (and 43 things)
lost.
Like I got lost from myself. Hate this feeling. Must get myself back.
How I did it: It's not like I had become the perfect image of the person I had in mind when I picked this goal. The thing is, I'm not perfect, never planned on being, never will be. And that's fine, in fact, it's great. ;) So, who is that person I've always wanted to be?
It's pointless to try and be something else, cause I'm always me, you know? Even if I change in some aspects (which of course, happens) I'll still be me. So this goal is like a zeno's arrow, it will never be literally completed.
So this is how I decided to interpret the goal: I'm supposed to start being the kind of person I'm proud of being. And that I've surely became. So.. it's done! =)
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littlemissfickle2 is getting back to herself (and 43 things)
lost.
Like I got lost from myself. Hate this feeling. Must get myself back.
littlemissfickle2 is getting back to herself (and 43 things)
A reporter asked the photographer J.R. Duran:
What do you miss?
“I wish I was who I was when I wanted to be who I am now”
It got me thinking..
littlemissfickle2 is getting back to herself (and 43 things)
I got this by email, I’m not sure is legitimate, but here it goes.
According to the test my priorities in life are (in order of importance):
pride
career
money
family
love
I see in myself: inconditional love
in my partner: indiference
my enemy: brave loner
sex: strong
my life: calm, blue
I’ll never forget B., L. considers me a true friend, I truly love aunt N., M. is my soul mate O.O, and I’ll remember S. until I die.
Not sure about a the whole thing, I don’t really see myself in those results.
littlemissfickle2 is getting back to herself (and 43 things)
You Live in the Present

You take things one day at a time.
And it turns out, that’s a pretty great way to live.
You aren’t consumed by the past, and you’re aren’t obsessed with the future.
You live in the now, and you enjoy each moment.
While most people don’t live in the present enough, make sure you don’t live in it too much.
It would be a mistake to forget your past or neglect to plan for the future.
littlemissfickle2 is getting back to herself (and 43 things)
Your Love Life is Like Annie Hall

“A relationship, I think, is like a shark. You know? It has to constantly move forward or it dies.”
You believe that love (if you even believe in love!) is a very complicated thing.
Maybe love is pain. Or maybe it’s all a big therapy session. You’re still figuring it out.
Your love style: Brainy and a bit neurotic
Your Hollywood Ending Will Be: Realistic and reflective
littlemissfickle2 is getting back to herself (and 43 things)
You’ve Experienced 32% of Life

You have the life experience of someone in their early 20s.
You’ve seen some of what life has to offer – but you have a long way to go.
Over time, you’ll do enough and see enough to gain some wisdom.
But for now, try to learn from people who’ve lived a little more than you have!
littlemissfickle2 is getting back to herself (and 43 things)
Your Favorite Color Says You’re Gifted

Intuitive – Seeking – Creative
Kind – Self-Sacrificing – Growth Oriented
Strong – Very Wise – Rare
littlemissfickle2 is getting back to herself (and 43 things)
Your Sensitivity Score: 66%

You are a highly sensitive person. Pretty much everything effects you.
You are tuned into the vibe around you, and someone’s bad mood can bring you down.
But you also easily share in someone’s joy – whether you know them or not.
littlemissfickle2 is getting back to herself (and 43 things)
Yeap, I’m proud! I was having a rather shitty conversation with my ex-boyfriend. One of those where accusations are exchanged, when we’re both too heavily armed to make communication possible.
Anyway, I’ve fleed! Normally I’d go too deep into the rabbit hole, only to find myself in pieces at the end.
So this is something new: If you know you can only get hurt and the conversation is not going anywhere, it’s not worth it! If you’re starting to feel bad, like someone is draining all the joy of your gorgeous friday morning – shame on them! Only you can allow someone to do that to you, and it’s sooo not worth it. don’t go there, there’s no point.
If it’s something that really bothers you, give it some thinking (but not too much), then, when you’re calmer, you can talk about it (but you don’t have to) – and you may even find out that the point of view you were defending so vehemently is not even yours. It would have been a waisted battle anyway.
There’s no denying, some battles are necessary (you have to stand up for yourself – you own yourself that sometimes) but some will only cause pain.
The key is to know the difference.
littlemissfickle2 is getting back to herself (and 43 things)
“Every one suspects himself of at least one of the cardinal virtues, and this is mine: I am one of the few honest people that I have ever known.”