persuade people gently, accept that winning arguments just make people angry

its not really that an argument in ur in is a dispute but that its something to do, to most ppl i try and not argue with that is. and it duznt matter wether u give up or battle it out, u will never win and never lose.

i yell more than neccesary adn cant lose, but ive lost a lot lately, mayb its cuz im with one guy that wont SHUT THE KCUF UP, wehn in a argument hes losing then. u no u cood decided not to win arguments gently but just give up, i mean if some1 really wants to win that bad then its not about winnning for them its about fighting against u.

Its more than a goal, its a philosophy.

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I am waiting for the anger.

Not sure if I could ever achieve this goal. There is too much stupidity and misinformation in the world.