grow my hair to the bottom of my back

Now I want to grow it back .. I cut it because I didnt want to be attractive, since I want to be celibate (also it kept getting these tiny little tangles on the ends like there was super glue in it) .. .but when my hair is short, I feel ugly. I think it’ll take a couple more years to grow it back out

Right now I’m about 4 inches away.. but my hair grows slowly. I hope it doesn’t take too long…