french-kiss a French man

First man I ever kissed, first man I ever let kiss me. Totally worth the 27 year wait. 3 years ago

Wayne made me think of this goal as he was speaking/typing to me and this fancy idea popped in my head and I thought, yep – let’s add it. An extra layer for French deliciousness, if you will:

I think it would be lovely to have a boy read Le Petit Prince in French to me as we are snuggled up on Sunday morning.

That way I could be getting in a review of the “classics” while having quality one-on-one time with my SO and brushing up on my French. It would be a triple-goal play ;o) 4 years ago

Probably should use a real French Man this time, so I’m sure I’m doing it properly and can check this off my list.

I had anticipated a training session this past weekend, which to my surprise didn’t turn out that way.

Will miss the Cowboy, but I’m new to the research scene and there are plenty of other occupations to keep me busy. 4 years ago

So my non-French man (also known as Cowboy!) has decided that it’s been too long since we’ve gotten together (okay, it was a mutual decision, but sometimes a girl likes to spin the perspective…)

My schedule has been too crazy to fit many things in much less ranch hands. Thankfully, however I am free some of this weekend.

Looking forward to it for a few reasons:
1. It’s been crazy at work and home; I need a break to not focus on that.
2. Some males in my immediate life (my ex-h and dog, Max) have been giving me grief and I need to ensure that all good men haven’t been taken by the Rapture.
3. I need to practice; otherwise I will never be able to complete this goal properly.
4. We’re going to a restaurant I haven’t been to in years. The last time I was there I had good memories.
5. He’s honest with me, even if I don’t like what he’s saying.
6. He’s funny and can usually keep up with my wacky sense of perspective.
7. He’s smart in a very non-condescending way
8. He’s the most courteous man I’ve ever met. Not in a sugary way (and I’m sure there are times when that isn’t the case), but it’s very amazing to me that he instantly thinks of the good in people or the situation.
9. But, his occasional grumpiness is cute too.
10. He likes to get what he wants and uses a lot of surprisingly charming tactics to achieve the desired results.
11. I’ve tired him out, which was VERY hard to do, but HA! I won :oP !!!
12. He listens to my suggestions for fun things to do and follows through on them. (This I have made, VERY hard to do, but he’s surprised me each and every time). 4 years ago

Can’t blame me for giving in to the studies. He’s a good and patient tutor. I want to make sure I’m doing it right, so I think it’s important to indulge in all aspects.

Maybe I’ll try different techniques and have him hold up cue cards to let me know how he likes different things.

Of course, the cards would read “9.9995”, “9.9996”, “9.9997”, “9.9998”, “9.9999” and “10”

;o) 4 years ago

I don’t think he has any French ancestry, but there is a boy that does french kiss and is very good at it. I’ve seen him with and without his beard…. I like the beard best! 4 years ago

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Meh. I have more important goals at the moment. I’d love to do this some day, but I reached my 43 things and I need to delete some to add others… so bye bye french man.
For now… 4 years ago

merceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey 4 years ago

I think it makes your life longer 4 years ago

There is something about kissing. Everyone kisses differently. Some kiss by the book, sticking to the rules. Oh you know the ones… not too much licking, don’t puch toungue deep into poor girls mouth. This is all great advice. Unfortunately I don’t believe one should kiss by the book. My best kiss (which made my toes curl) was de facto against all rules. He grabbed me much to forcefully and tight and yes he did shove his tongue very brutally into my mouth. All my girlfriends gasp in shocked horror. fair enough. So do I, but not really. It was the hottest kiss ever. I have never ever felt so “in gone with the wind”. It was the kisses to end all other kisses! Was he french? Nop. Did it work out? NO. Which is why I figure the french do it best after all… 5 years ago

but for being one of the people who suppsedly invented this, he was HORRIBLE! and then he proceeded to stalk me for the rest of my weekend in Toronto. no fun. guess i just like the subtle types; good thing i live in Japan! 5 years ago

Wanna help me cross this one off my list?!? 5 years ago

french men are soo sexy!! 5 years ago

This must be the Zeus of kissing activity 5 years ago

I think that I was a little too drunk to enjoy it to the fullest, so next time I go on a date with a French guy I’ll try to stay sober! 5 years ago