It made me

How I did it: 1.) I found the top online after looking at various styles. Since I got a 30GG, I bought mine from a girl on a busty clothes forum. I'll probably keep looking for a 28GG in that style. Find bottoms which flatter. Mine are from Salvation Army, and they're a high cut style, which is more flattering on my average-length legs and short waist. I'm on the lookout for a better fit there as well, but these were close enough. Buying them separately saved me a bunch of money.
2.) This was easy on hot summer days. Go outside and water the plants or something, so you get used to being bare.
3.) I don't swim alone, so I went with some (older) friends of mine. It helped that at their age they were less body-obsessed than young people. Swimming where you don't know anyone could also work.
4.) Fake it til you make it. I learned this from dance. Move like you have a
ton of confidence and are the most awesome thing ever. You will look
your best. Also, swimming in a lake, where most of the time your body is under water, helps. Sunbathing or lounging around takes more confidence. Read how I did it… 10 months ago

It made me

confident!!

How I did it: Problem with wearing a bikini for me wasnt buying and getting one,but managing to deal with the flaws that I see with myself.There are people who say accept you are beautiful and flaunt your body.I understand their perspective,but I am human,and I dont like to be undermined by the perfect skin,body and frontiere and derriere of most bikini people out here.