Relationship

I will remember for a long time that afternoon and the insight I gained from my friend. Since then, I began to notice I wasn’t the only person who gave off that same signal.
We worked together, we were both single and went out socially to the same function. That evening we were going to a party at a friend’s house. I knew almost everyone there, and she joined me simply to meet guys. During the course of the evening I spent a good amount of time socializing with a group of friends, mainly men. While I was talking and joking, thinking I was being charming, polite and funny, she was observing me.
As we were driving home she said, “I want you to know what I saw tonight. The way you are, you have a really nice way with people…
but you do send a signal that says you will let them get only so close.”
Thinking she was joking, I looked and replied, “What are you talking about? As if it impossible for me to have any unknown defenses. She paused and smiled back as she repeated, “I’m telling you, you send off a signal that says no one is to get too close. Everyone picks up on it.” With that, she stopped talking and let me ponder her words. She wasn’t asking me, she was telling me. It wasn’t open for debate. I could tell she was serious, but I honestly didn’t know what she was talking about.
I was stunned and wanted to defend myself; but, because I trusted her, I considered her words. It hit me. Have I ever let anyone get close enough to hurt me. Yes, once.
I’d become the Tower with a moat around me.
Time to dismantle that which is conditioned.
False-to-fact.
It’s nice being safe, but it can also be lonely.

i am a nice looking girl , very gentel girl , i have fear of God with human
feelings, caring and loving, very romantic easy going try to do and see new
things with sense of humor, very easy to understand i know what love is all
about,very honesty man,i am here for friends

It is a basic need to have the comfort of the arms and the soul of a love
We need what we need and that is, the joy of human touch
the softness of a kind voice
The comfort of knowing it is there no matter what
The day to dayness of it….is so lovely
It is part of the human condition to want to feel it
A nice reality to know if things hit the fan you are not going home to an empty house

Relationship

Intimacy comes from a Latin root that means innermost.

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”

In a most precious relationship
we trust enough
to reveal our inner self
to be completely authentic
to never betray oneself

a truthful love affair
reflects total balance

Conscious indifference is not an option
We were created by Love, for love, to love.

That after seeking for a while, I would find a relationship… Or mutliple. Let the adventures of alternate lifestyles begin! LOL.

Good luck to all fo you searching! Remember that you’ll never find anyone if you aren’t able to really put yourself out there -and the internet doesn’t count! ^_

i need nice lady

I am not young anymore. 25. not old yet. Have been with quite a few guys,but i am afraid that none of my relationship seem right. Maybe I shouldn’t think this way…People told me that I am confident, attractive and fun to be with. I guess I still feel hurt by my ex. I break up with him because he planned to move to another city without letting me know. He then say, we should be friends to each other. However, when I actcully try to contact him he never replied to my msg or answered my calls. I don’t know why, and this drives me crazy. I have my pride so I don’t try to contact him again, but felt used and ashamed. This doesn’t sound like a normal ending to relationship does it. I am not very happy.