I am going to say I have completed this based on my laurels. I have helped a friend give birth; I support friends in their business endeavours; I listen to venting and I keep secrets. I celebrate; I mourn. I cook meals. I give gifts. I give hugs.
“Good friend” is a fluid state. Sometimes I am a shitty friend but I think I balance out to being a good friend most of the time. 9 months ago