get over my ex boyfriend

okay, so I’m new to 43things, primarily for the desire to get over my exboyfriend. I am frustrated bc my ex who I love, left me for a stupid country: France. Now I’m stuck living with my parents, and I have no friends. Its really pretty pathetic. Anyhow, I can’t stop thinking about him, which just makes me feel all the more miserable and pathetic. The worst part is that I keep thinking about what will happen when he comes back, but thats impractical because he’s going to be gone for atleast a year, and he’s expressed no desire to maintain the relationship while away or to resume it when he gets back. But the thing is that I don’t even think i’d be happy with him when he gets back because of his overly active ambition that will most likely leave me, once again, in the dust. FML

I was with him 11 mounts and now is over becouse we dont want same things in future. We get on very well and we had good times together
He still miss me i miss him. we still like each other but we are not together.
is this normal?? why he done this to me?

and its been about 3 months since i last had contact with him. I can say I’m definately 75% of the way of being completely over him. The more time I spend alone is the more I realize how much I was mistreated and how emotionally immature and selfish he was…

Still sad and miss him, but i’m almost to the part now where I could have no more feelings for him in a few more weeks. Can’t wait to get there!! Actually, i think right now, If i were dating someone that i really liked i’d probably be over him by now too! (just not sure how many more men i need to date for that to happen :( )

so 7 years of wasted love on someone that gives up on things because they become too hard.

i’m almost over him. 95% there. aafter 7 months. they say for every year of dating it takes a month to get over them… so 7 months after the breakup of a 7 year relationship… i should be over him already!!!

i’m almost there, at least.

we’re just friends now. i dont know if thats a good idea

i still cry over him

We dated for 5 months, well technically 7, but i went away for two months and when i came back i found out that he cheated on me with 3 different girls. It’s been only 3 weeks since I’ve broken up with hima and he already has another girlfriend. I’m devasted really. I honestly did love him. He’s the only guy I’ve ever loved. It sounds like he’s moving on, so that’s all I want. To get over this. I don’t want to feel like this anymore.

So today, I accidentally log onto 43Things for the first time in a year, and see that the last thing in my list is “Get over my ex-boyfriend.”

But… the last time I logged on we were still in a relationship??? Was I really so sad while we were broken up that I logged on and added that as a goal? And then blocked it out of my memories?! And was that directed towards him, or to the guy that I dated immediately after briefly and couldn’t get over for quite a while?! Or did one of my friends want to drop me a hint, log onto my account, and write that for me?

Funny thing, two days ago he called and told me that he agreed with my parents when they said I wasn’t over him. Then, today, right before I stumbled onto this account, I told my friend what he said, and she agreed with them too.

Oh well. I’m quite over all of them now.

dammit, I cant stop thinking about him, I think about him every minute of the day. Its kinda sick. Im so obsessed, and its like I dont even know why I feel this way, our relationship wasnt that great. He used me all the time we were together, so if you think about it theres really no reason for me to love him. He was my “first” so i guess thats why i got so attached, blah. I really have to start thinking about less. but its so hard! blah!

i only went out with him for a little over a month and he was so wrong for me in so many ways but i still cant get over him (4 months later) even with an amazing boyfriend who is perfect in every way.

=[ why did the bastard have to be so bloody amazing and yet such a annoying ** at the same time! awww i miss him so much now were “just friends” its pure torture!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!