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LPITE 2 months ago

without or in spite of the fear . with a sense of humour .try and
see where it goes . don’t have to say anything just acknowledge

day 2 thinking about this do i really like people who look me in the
eye ???? does anybody really like people that look them in the
eye . if you don’t have anything to be ashamed about maybe you
have no shame ?

day 3 yes



Rushing from the sub-pump 2 months ago

I’ve been working on this. Sometimes I even make a conscience effort to look people in the eye when we are talking. I’ve noticed that there is one person whom I never look in the eye and they never look at me either when we are talking. I think it’s because I don’t trust her and she probably knows it. I think it’s because of our past and things get awkward sometimes.



CrazyFlea is crazy

AHH IT FEELS TOO WEIRD 6 months ago

It’s only last year that i realised i haven’t look people in the eye when they are talking. I mean i do but when our eyes lock i tend to avoid eye contact after that ‘cos it just feels uneasy. I have been trying to look people in the eye more now and it still feels uncomfortable. Hopefully it will feel natural soon! =D



Lucite is so excited for the summer!!

Untitled 6 months ago

It’s not hard for me to look people in the eye when they’re talking to me, but when I’m talking that’s another story.



I would really like to become better at this... 7 months ago

I’m usually able to look at people when they talk to me, but not for long periods of time, it just.. feels too intense. I find it hard to look at people when they’re really close to my face too, because I feel they can see every ugly detail on me.

Still, I know it looks even worse when I don’t look at them. A calm, firm gaze is so confident and lovely, whatever I look like. I want that. So, this is just a matter of reminding myself of this goal every time I’m listening or speaking to someone.



Lifetime learning 7 months ago

I am in business and I need to be able to do this without a second thought…



I'm doing a great job! 10 months ago

Tonight I met a truckload of new people and I not only did an awesome job keeping conversations going, I did an amazing job at keeping eye contact too!

I’m feelin’ so good about this!



lazylibra is trying hard

I shall win!! 10 months ago

may the staring contest begin!!!



Untitled 12 months ago

I was “normal” in high school but when I turned 18 something happened and I lost my ability to look people in the eye. I keep trying to get better at it but I overanalyze my problem and the next thing I know I feel more confused. Guess I need to practice letting go of the anxiety I feel when I have to look at someone. Having to reclaim my power is one of the greatest challenges I will face in this lifetime.



Uhh... 12 months ago

It’s super easy when it’s with people I’ve met more than once. I haven’t met anyone new in the past few days… so I’ll say I’ve been doing well?



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